Believe it or not, men don't always want to have sex. He's not a human vibrator. At least that's what they want us to believe.
Seriously, though, there are serious mistakes that women make during sex.
It was pretty funny that I found this article in my inbox today because while I was reading it, my ear was getting bent by a friend of mine.
L made many of the mistakes identified in the article. She allowed a booty call to become something more. She claimed that she was only sleeping with S because she needed a release. But he was turning her apartment into his vacation get away. After sex, he'd get up and eat ice cream and cookies as if he was paying for groceries.
Sex Mistake #10: Blundering a booty call.
LifeScript asked several sex experts for their tips for no-strings nookie:
- Make sure youre both in it just for the sex. If one person is clearly looking for something more than a hook-up, its rude to string them along with a series of booty calls, says Amber Madison, author of Hooking Up: A Girls All-Out Guide To Sex and Sexuality (Prometheus Books).
Limit the drunken 3 a.m. phone calls. Thats kind of when [flings] happen, says Josey Vogels, author of Bedside Manners: Sex Etiquette Made Easy (HarperCollins). But waking someone up every Friday and Saturday night might be abusing your booty call privileges a bit.
But we're all adults, right? Why is it that when it comes to sex, we act like children? Guys, let me let you in on a little secret, all women who fuck you don't want to marry you. If you're honest on the front end, it probably won't stop you from getting the nookie.
Some women don't mind sharing. While, it's not something I would advise, there are a few women out there who like it better when their partner isn't around all the time. But beware, Fatal Attraction, may not be based on a true story, but it has been known to happen in real life. Creative Loafing wrote about it earlier this year.
So, maybe we're all making mistakes before we get into bed because we're not talking about what really matters.