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This article and topic weighs heavy on my heart and mind. Good for you to share your frustration as there appears no end in sight and PEOPLE ARE DYING! I am a transplant from New York, white, been here 14 years. I due realize that my life is privileged because of my skin color. Yes there is bigotry in New York, however, I've never witnessed the level of bigotry towards black society as I do in North Carolina. When I moved here it was 2002 but felt like 1942 and I was scared. I was oblivious to the white domination that still exists here. Shame on me. To my fellow Americans who are black; you have my complete empathy and support. This is a country of freedom, but not if you're black. It makes me sick.

Posted by April Thiel Wallace on 08/02/2016 at 12:19 PM

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I'm sick & tired too! Tears and worry and rage and frustration and horror again and again and over again. What are we to do? I don't know what to do.

Posted by Julie Torrence on 08/01/2016 at 8:43 PM

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@Jasmine It is very disturbing. I have always stated that unfortunately in this country brown children,especially brown boys do not get the luxury of being children. In the eyes of many in the mainstream they go from being cute to being threatening in a short window. It must be very challenging as a Mom. Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts.

Posted by Charles Easley on 08/01/2016 at 5:01 PM

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@Joseph You are correct the influence of the historical impact of institutionalized and internalized oppression is numbing. Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts!

Posted by Charles Easley on 08/01/2016 at 4:59 PM

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@BJ it is interesting you share that thought because many forget that the initial push during the civil rights movement was not so much for integration but equality. Some would argue that the black community was much stronger and independent when it had to rely on its own citizens as resources. Thank you for reading and sharing your perspective on this topic!

Posted by Charles Easley on 08/01/2016 at 4:56 PM

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@Schan Thank you for the encouraging words and thank you for reading and joining the discussion!

Posted by Charles Easley on 08/01/2016 at 4:54 PM

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@Brandon It is amazing the somewhat mundane issues folks take for granted but for others something as benign as a broken tail light can quickly put marginalized folks in harms way due to the propaganda of pronounced aggression against minority groups. Thank you for reading.

Posted by Charles Easley on 08/01/2016 at 4:53 PM

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@Donna Frazier You are so right Sis that when you live under such high alert and stressful times you have to find ways to find peace and center yourself or like you say you can be driven mad with worry. Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts!

Posted by Charles Easley on 08/01/2016 at 4:51 PM

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Great article! As mother to a little one-I hold my breath because I wonder when will the day come that others may not think he's so cute any more? I pray...all the time, that one day soon things will change in a positive direction.

Posted by Jasmine Corbett on 08/01/2016 at 3:49 PM

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There is no escape via our own state or country (or in the world) from internationalized institutionalized racism but institutionalized resistance by all means historically and presently that is not collectively suicidal. In that regard MLK was CORRECT in terms of strategies (Remember America is the only country that has used the "BIG BOMB" against its "enemies"!)

Posted by Joseph Williams on 08/01/2016 at 1:07 AM

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Posted by anthony lee on 07/31/2016 at 7:21 AM

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Powerful. Authentically Written. Beautifully Human. Thank you my friend for your poignant point of view. It's real.

Posted by SincerelySchan on 07/30/2016 at 10:30 AM

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Then let me help you understand what I meant about Dr. King's teachings. What Dr. King was trying to teach us was not to wait for the approval or cooperation of public officials, but to take charge of the situation ourselves. If we wait there will be no action. Dr. King was about self-empowerment not permission. But since we don't understand his methods, we are frustrated and afraid.

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Posted by Thomas Cooper on 07/29/2016 at 3:28 PM

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This is all the way real. I'm sick and tired of everything u just named. I shouldn't have to be worried about going to the house safely because of something like expired tags or a tailight being out.

Posted by Brandon Iamhiphop King on 07/29/2016 at 8:36 AM

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@Yi Hero it is very stressful to deal with this type of trauma on an everyday basis and yes it gets even more infuriating when the mainstream seems to move forward in a blissful air of detachment. Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts.

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Posted by Charles Easley on 07/28/2016 at 6:36 PM

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@thomas cooper I think you are correct is is a very complex problem but I think the frustration comes from when authority figures do not seem willing to engage in the conversation or even address that there is a problem. Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts on this topic.

Posted by Charles Easley on 07/28/2016 at 6:34 PM

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@marcus holland Thank you man and thank you for reading!

Posted by Charles Easley on 07/28/2016 at 5:08 PM

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Thanks for the Link Bro Easley, I believe it is time for a divorce. What do I mean? People get divorced all the time because of irreconcilable differences. I think the time has come for black people to consider separation and let us have a couple of states that we can have and live in peace. Dr. King which many did not know, said temporary separation from the whites of America would be good.

Would a battered wife continue to come back for more abuse or would she separate from her abuser. Unfortunately there is no other solution that to start building communitites that we can live in peace together.....All this "We need to come together crap is for cowards who feel that one day white people are going to wake up and treat you right, while our children continue to suffer.....Black America, we are grown now. We must stop acting like their children begging and pleading with them to treat you right....We need a national debate on this

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Posted by BJ Murphy Show BJ on 07/28/2016 at 5:02 PM

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Deep. You basically summed up all my emotions in one article. I am sick and tired of being sick and tired. I'm tired of all the injustice in the Just Us system. I hate to say it this way but, most whites don't care about the struggle we go through as black people. As long as it isn't affecting them they see no problem with it. And even in instances were they are affected you see little to no response from them. As in the case of the 19 year old Dylan Noble. The conservative media only wants to focus on the issues when it's a black cop that shots a white teen, as in the case of 18 year old Gil Collar. They only care about it when they can use it to further their means of hate and bigotry. It's a sad world we live in nowadays.

Posted by Yi Hero on 07/28/2016 at 4:40 PM

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Powerfully articulated, brother! And I, too, have found myself in this crippling mindset. I have had to find ways to calm myself and breath because if I didn't, I would go mad at comments like, "you know more whites are shot than blacks." Ya think? There's 194 million white people in this country and 33 million black people. If the numbers REALLY added up, blacks would not be shot at 30 TIMES the rate of the number of white people, but folks don't care to do the REAL math when it comes to those numbers. These are the kinds of responses that just last week had me wanting to curl up into a ball and never leave my house again. If I didn't have a peace that passes all understanding, I'm sure I would never see the light of day again.

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Posted by Donna Frazier on 07/28/2016 at 12:28 PM

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