Perhaps if you could talk a few more friends into going with you next time you can explore your kink side more fully. There is a limit to what we can provide as a host if you don't have any companions or like minded people with you to share the experience. I assure you there was no shortage of possibility provided at the event from training to demonstration to gear for play to opportunities to play on professional equipment. What you do with the opportunity and surrounding toys, gear and shackles is really up to you though. :D
i agree. no one should ever listen to a rock band with a controversial name. wait, what?