Being a person of 40 now and looking back on my life I wish I'd never agreed to a relationship with an older man. I met him when I was 17, and he was 45. We've dated for years and years, however, once gay marriage became legal I wanted to get married. He's so opposed to it, he says we don't need a piece of paper to prove how much we love one another.
Well, he's now 68 years old, and has a little Hispanic guy working for him. My partner is always saying how much he appreciates the 22 year old Hispanic guy, and how hard the Hispanic guy works for him.
I used to work for him years ago doing a lot of the jobs the Hispanic guy does now, and when I mention it. My partner says I don't remember you ever doing these things, and then he'll say sorry I do remember. However, it's different with you because we're in a relationship, and he's alone.
He gives the Hispanic guy extra money for work, but not in checks (which are tax deductible) in cash. The Hispanic guy works for him, and he'll write him a check. Once my partner writes him a check he'll ask him "don't you think you deserve more money?" He'll then proceed to give him cash. I found out he was giving him cash because the Hispanic guy told me one day to tell my business partner he really appreciated the extra $50 he left in his tool box. I asked what? What do you mean an extra $50...he proceeded to tell me my (business note business) partner leaves extra cash in his tools quite often.
I confronted my partner about it and he said he'd done it only twice because he thought he didn't charge enough for his work. Well last Sunday the Hispanic guy was doing some work for us on a piece of our property, and I walked over to the back-door of the property. There was my partner staring at him, and my partner didn't realize I was standing there and said "Bless his heart he's working with his hands because the saw is broken". I said what? Partner was shocked I was in the room, and jumped.
I said what do you mean he's working with his hands, and what do you mean the saw is broken? He told me while he was using the saw to cut some limbs the saw broke, I asked how does a saw break itself? He then said the chain suddenly jumped off the saw, and the bar holding the chain got bent. I asked how? He said The Hispanic guy was using it and it got caught in a limb, and the chain suddenly jumped off the bar, and the bar bent.
MY point in writing this dissertation is because no matter what if an older man is attracted to younger guys/boys he's never going to change. I'm attracted to men, real men it's never crossed my mind to date a boy.
I don't buy the garbage some people just feel younger, and are attracted to younger guys because they have more in common with the younger guy. If that were true then why did we spend the first ten years of our relationship with me going to clubs, travelling with friends, etc. if he had more in common with me than his own peers.
Oh, we were in couple's therapy and on my mom's death bed my partner proceeded to tell me he was most attracted to guys 12 - 15 years old. I've been with the pedo for over twenty years of my life and he likes 'BOYS'.
In reference to the 13 year old boy being around the 50 year old man. Scream, yell, rant and rave in the streets if you have too, but just get that 13 year old boy away from that sick pervert. No mentor is going to ask a 13 year old boy to spend the night with him. It's not normal, and even if the child has come out and his parents, plus asked the old fart to be a mentor to him. They can find a much younger mentor. This man is a pervert...he likes boys, and no-one will ever convince me other-wise.
I was molested by my minister when I was 15, and I strongly believe it's the main reason I dated older men. There was a time I felt safe with older men, but younger men can make you feel just as safe. Younger men can fall in love, younger men can also have great sex with you without falling asleep.
I'm certain some gay people will blast me for writing this. However, there are far more gay men who are older attracted to younger guys than there ones attracted to men their own age. It’s a control thing…the younger man/boy is much easier to control. Men are men, no matter if they're gay, straight or bisexual...most all of them don't think with their minds.
My partner who I've dedicated my life to for over twenty years, and am tied up in business together is now looking at someone young enough to be his grandson. It' disgusting....
If he lives long enough they'll soon be young enough to be his great grandson.
sex is not "assigned" at birth - at least it should not be by whoever is doing the assigning because gender is determined AT CONCEPTION: two x chromosomes results in a person who can have a baby etc., that is, a person who manifests as female...an x and a y chromosome results in a male (active) energy manifesting person amen?
but in this slavery genocide and imperialism based nation in rebellion against God called the u.s.a. somebody (the social system?) (who?) "ASSIGNS" to a newborn a RIGIDLY CIRCUMSCRIBED role based on having a penis or not - the rigidity is so great and all-pervasive (like the RACIAL RIGIDITY) that if you want to manifest any meaningful trait or traits of the "opposite" gender you have to go all the way and have your balls cut off or have a penis and balls sewn on...why else other than that extreme rigidity of role expectation and assignment would somebody go through all the pain and trouble and expense of "gender reassignment surgery" and life-long hormone treatment?
and they still haven't done it completely: the new man cannot impregnate and the new woman cannot conceive amen?
anyhow and anyway your TRUE IDENTITY is not your gender or your favorite sex act but intead THE LIFE IN YOU ID GOD AMEN!?
and the AMAZING GRACE AND TRUTH OF GOD is a GREATER pleasure than even multiple orgasms amen?
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I totally agree with the people about making blanket statements. What the actual f***? you do NOT, i repeat- NOT have the right to ask such private, personal questions about someone JUST BECAUSE YOU FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE. challenge your mind and beliefs.
You know, at first I had a problem with old guys/chickenhawks/daddies-- and I AM A YOUNG gay man who LIKES them. But all it really comes down to is if the person has good intentions or not. Humans are intuitive creatures and we usually know what's up in people's minds.
sorry dickhead its inyoface I was referring to
It appears to me that dickhead has strong judgemental problems clouding his ideas. We hardly live in a perfect society or world so it would be positive if people were to look at things on their own individual basis. If a 60 year old guy finds young guys or girls attractive he´s hardly a perv, what is this word anyway?
I have children and I give them freedom as long as they are not going to have issues relating to health , criminality or life preservation. I did however spend time with them when they were kids to prepare them for life..thanks
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Thank you for your story.. I can only vaguely imagine what you have gone thru... While the wild crazy sex sounds amazing.. it's just that.. Sex is not everything in life.. I had a lover with 12 inches. The weird thing was when I met him, he was splitting up with someone.. We spent a whole month together, before I every saw him naked.. I was in 7th heaven.. But what made it so great. was that we went out so long, without being intimate. He nickname was 'biggest dick, south of 42nd street. and it constantly bothered him, that people liked him only for his genitals.. Other times, he would use it to get what he wanted.. I loved him for his soul and personality.. The other thing, was a special gift.. Truth is I never met a really well endowed guy (that was my specialty for a number of years).. that weren't messed up.. Their member, WAS who they were.. that's how most people interpreted it.. Now I'm over that.. I can see why both men and women would be fascinated, especially guys not normally gay.. We had a gay guy at our gym, who pumped himself for years.. When he wore his tighty whiteys, it looked like a LARGE grapefruit in there.. It was the straight guys who gave him the most attention.. Whether they just wanted to see it, or touch it or whatever.. I don't know.. But thanx for your story and pictures... If I ever come accross a DD.. I won't be so shocked.. Thanx for telling and showing us.. You appear to be a nice guy, who's not all hung up on his curse/blessing.. You accept it and move on with your life.. More power to you..
I can attest to this. My hubby was avg sized when married and a avg lover in bed. He was always so hasty, now 10 years later and 100 more pounds and he's slower and much more oral and giving. I dont complain about his weight:)
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What the fuck is up with these comments?
I agree. Either the letter is a fake or the child is being molested by SOMEONE.
You do not do anything while drunk that you didn't want to do. What alcohol does is turn off that little voice in your head that says "nothing good can come of this". You then do what you wanted to do but were afraid of, or at least knew of, the possible consequences.
I told my daughters that the best way to evaluate a new boyfriend was to get him drunk. That is the quickest way to find out who is really in there. Does he become a flirt, a giggler, or an angry obnoxious fighter?
If the guy above sends flirty things when drunk but denial things when sober, he likes it but is afraid of the consequences.
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