Ladies, you spend a lot of time making sure your clothes, hair, nails, feet, everything looks good. Thats wonderful. Some men should follow suit. However, when it comes to the undies, you start slacking. This is just a crying shame. Its like giving up on the race, AT the finish line.
Now I have heard all the excuses, I cant find stuff that fits. It costs too much. No one else is gonna see it. It isnt gonna be on that long anyway. Who cares? I know there are more of them, but at the end of the day, my answer is the same: Do the work and find matching sets. Its worth it. Heres why.
If you feel sexy and confident, you act sexy and confident. It starts with you. When you look good, you feel good. When you feel good, you play good. Your inner attitude is always displayed on the outside. People can tell when you have a little extra pep in your step. When you leave the house and NO ONE can tell you you dont look good, theres an air of confidence that is extremely attractive. Trust me. There is nothing sexier than a confident woman.
Your man will appreciate it. Theres a reason Victorias Secret does so well. They understand that men are visual creatures. We are attracted to what we can see and what we can feel. Thats why the Swimsuit Edition of Sports Illustrated is always a big hit. We love to see you match. Its sexy. Its a turn-on. Theres nothing like unwrapping a present and having a beautiful gift inside. Man, you cant wait to play with it! You ever notice in all the magazine ads you see that the sets match? Its because its sexier. PERIOD!! Some of you have been married for a while and lets just say, the fire doesnt burn as hot as it used to. I bet youre wearing a nightgown, or worse, a freaking extra long T-shirt to bed ever night. Nothing says Come and get me, big boy like an outfit that reminds him of his grandmother, especially when they come with the ultimate turnoff tool: granny panties.
I know right now, some of you are saying: "My man doesnt care." Yes he does! There are few who dont. But they are a rarity. Just because he doesnt say anything about it doesnt mean he doesnt care. Some men have conceded the fact that they are only gonna win so many arguments. He isnt gonna waste it on this particular battle. So Im taking it up for him. Step up your underwear game.
As I said earlier, youre grown. Do what you want to do. But my suggestion is get off the excuse wagon and get some matching underwear. Go online, do some research. If it were important enough, you would find it. Im sure if you were gonna have a night out with the man of your dreams, you would take the time to find every necessary item you needed to make the night special, including matching underwear. And oh yea, for those of you who disagree, before I sent this article in, I asked a number of friends about this, male and female, and they agreed with it.
William Wilson is a nationally respected mens clothier and image consultant. His clients include professional athletes, CEOs, and corporations. His homepage is www.WilliamtheClothier.com. Follow William on Twitter: www.Twitter.com/theclothier or on Facebook at www.facebook.com/williamtheclothier.
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