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Re: “Get Your Scorn Out of My Abortion Decision

Thank you for coming forward! More people need to have honest conversations...It isn't anyone else's business is exactly right! What has happened to respect and compassion? Thank you for this post!

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Posted by Lisa Lou on 03/22/2017 at 2:55 PM

Re: “Get Your Scorn Out of My Abortion Decision

Thank you so much for sharing your story! Women are more than capable of making their own healthcare and family planning decisions, without the intrusion of strangers who aim to shame and intimidate them outside of clinics.

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Posted by Britney Misson on 03/22/2017 at 2:44 PM

Re: “Buying legal weed in Colorado with a North Carolina ID

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Posted by Pope Rodney on 03/21/2017 at 1:30 PM

Re: “Local government: the new pride and prejudice

Our local government listened to their constituents and placed a moratorium on fracking. We'll see if the GOP comes after us

Posted by Keely Wood Puricz on 01/04/2017 at 7:31 PM

Re: “Local government: the new pride and prejudice

(t)he General Assembly shall provide for the organization and government and the fixing of boundaries of counties, cities and towns, and other governmental subdivisions, and, except as otherwise prohibited by (the) Constitution, may give such powers and duties to counties, cities and towns, and other governmental subdivisions as it may deem advisable. (Article VII, Section 1)
so The General Assembly has all power with no restraints unless challenged in a court of law as being unconstitutional? Fuckery...

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Posted by Kim Rivers on 12/28/2016 at 10:33 PM

Re: “Local government: the new pride and prejudice

"In that way, local governments, being closest to the people, can customize things for their communities."

But that's not how local governments work in North Carolina. NC is not a home rule state.

How Local Government Works

How NC Municipalities Work

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Posted by Tim Peck on 12/28/2016 at 3:22 PM

Re: “Resolved but not resigned to a Trump presidency

@Thomas Cooper I agree that if anything comes out of this folks should realize that we have to take responsibility for our own reality. Political leaders will come and go but our issues will remain the same and like you said we have to rely on each other to get through it the best way we can. Thank you for sharing such sage lessons and historical references.

Posted by Charles Easley on 12/07/2016 at 5:27 PM

Re: “Resolved but not resigned to a Trump presidency

@VC yes folks will definitely have to keep an eye out on what is going down. It's about to get real bumpy on this ride. Thank you for reading and sharing your comments.

Posted by Charles Easley on 12/07/2016 at 5:25 PM

Re: “Resolved but not resigned to a Trump presidency

I think we are most compelled now to look at our lives through the modest evolutions from which so many have and still evolve.

I impenitently stand on the sturdy shoulders of those whose devotion to change though not violent was still virulent and vituperative. I know the names of god mothers and fathers my own mother and father--whose flesh side of hand bore the scars of hours and hours of unrelenting work in bad conditions though in distinguished and dignified silence still voluminously tore down institutions like this newly proposed national one-- that was meant to do them harm. I have stood in sun, rain, wind, and cold with black community leaders who rallied their folk and other looking folk from all over and dared them to be still while local, county, state and federal leaders unabashedly targeted populations and attempted to undermine basic dignities that lineage blood had shed to attain. I have had my fair share of voter education rallies, donation pickups for clothing pantries, donation dropout to senior citizen high rises and section 8 community dwellers, document reads and signature signs for the unable to do so and have caught myself on occasions stopping just short of begging to hear just one more sage line from one of the most encouraging older mentor men I knew whose AIDs related death so stunned me in my younger adulthood I could hardly go among the many people and agencies he changed over his life because the memories were too painful. I am RESOLVED AND RESIGNED to be and do one thing whatever I and those of a kindred spirit have always donewhatever we can reasonably to destroy what appears to be one of the most openly divisive hate mongering machines to touch down in the free modern election era since Jesse Helms and Robert Byrds forces converged but still even many of that day never thought to give glimpses for presidencies.

In any case, we certainly cannot be trepid souls before and among those whom time has placed us in such proximity. Those who did so much more with so much less. They ALL told us who NEVER to trust AND WHY. We have been empowered. We know what we must do. We have been successful and will be again.

We just have to get past our utter appall and misinterpretation of how soon history can duplicate itself.

Posted by Tony-Tony Stark on 12/05/2016 at 3:30 PM

Re: “Resolved but not resigned to a Trump presidency

This is politics such as it is. We had a choice between two candidates neither of whom represented what was best for America, and so, once again, we were forced to choose between the lesser of two evils because once again, we found ourselves caught up in the embrace of the partisan political process as if it were out only hope for change. And so it is as long as we are foolish enough to surrender our potential power to one man. I have said this before, and I will say it again. Martin Luther King, Jr. taught us much about using our power collectively to bring about real social change, and yet we have forgotten the lessons. King placed little faith in the partisan political process. Instead he showed people how they could work together to make the changes they wanted. It wasn't easy and it didn't happen overnight, but he showed that it was possible. Our hope does not lie with any single person. It does not lie in laws, elections, or ever Supreme Court decisions. It lies in our collective will to do what is necessary, and unless we are willing and take action ourselves, we will fall into the despair of the outcome of elections, and we will wait for another four years to pass so that we can expend all of our energy and squander our faith on the possible outcome of an election. Einstein said that insanity was doing the same thing repeatedly expecting a different outcome. And so here we are writing a tale told by idiots. The rest is silence.

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Posted by Thomas Cooper on 12/04/2016 at 9:55 PM

Re: “Resolved but not resigned to a Trump presidency

The day Trump won the highest office in the land is the day the country officially went bats**t crazy. Forget his bigotry, xenophobia, misogyny, narcissism. This is a 70-year-old man who stays up all night tweeting replies to everyone who gets under his thin orange skin. That should be enough to disqualify him from office.
But no. Not in 2016. Not in the Year of the Crazy.
Obama brought class, intelligence and reason to the White House. Trump brings tantrums and anti-intellectualism. Gonna be a long four years.
But I'm with you, CE. I'm resolved to battle this blowhard clown all the way down to the wire. He didn't win the popular vote. He didn't even win a majority of Republican primary votes. He's a con man and carnival barker who slipped through the back door because the Establishment couldn't open its eyes long enough to develop a winning strategy against the worse presidential candidate in history.
Trump is not my president. He's just a temporary tenant at 1600 Pennsylvania Ave. I'm resolved to demand that the opposition party and media keep a laser focus on all of Trump's shady deals, shady connections, and shady friends and colleagues. I guarantee something will come up -- something YUUUUGE -- that will send him out of 1600 Pennsylvania Ave. on his a88.
Stay strong. Stay focused.

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Posted by VC on 11/26/2016 at 3:24 PM

Re: “Duvernay's 13th highlights a quandary for black voters

>> I am not pleased

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Posted by Johnson-Weld 2016 on 10/28/2016 at 12:30 PM

Re: “Checking in after Charlotte unrest, and not on Facebook

@Emine Wright Yes diva it is sad that folks care more about broken windows more than broken bodies and spirits. Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts.

Posted by Charles Easley on 10/01/2016 at 2:20 PM

Re: “Checking in after Charlotte unrest, and not on Facebook

@Tony Tony Stark OMG please can the sister with the big hat and formal voice read your note during the church announcements right after letting people know that the young adult singles ministry will now meet in the other building since the couple that facilitates it is going through a messy Thank you as always for your insight and cultural tone.

Posted by Charles Easley on 10/01/2016 at 2:18 PM

Re: “Checking in after Charlotte unrest, and not on Facebook

Brilliant article as usual Charles!

Yes, the #PrayForCharlotte is generic & impersonal, and (in my opinion) only floated by local news outlets AFTER the first night of protest (on the first night it was #CharlotteProtest). On the second (and following) days, local news media started floating #PrayForCharlotte and #OneCharlotte when they were reprimanded by Pat McCory (who I am hoping will soon be the Former Governor of North Carolina) for continuing to elevate the situation with their local & social media coverage. And Yes, the Facebook prompt was completely annoying, as if we were under some “terrorist attack” rather than citizens utilizing their rights. (I shared a few written words to Facebook about that as well).

Here’s the thing though: Social Media is a generic, impersonal, and a non-compassionate form of communication, and it is incumbent upon those that truly care about us (friends, family…etc) to reach out personally to see: ‘how we are truly doing.’ This exact same thing happened in Milwaukee, WI in August (where my sister lives) and I called her, just as she called me last week because I live in Charlotte. BUT…guess who Did Not reach out to me personally (nor did I them): The ‘so-called’ professionally assimilated and ‘accepted’ Black men and women (that I know) that work at great jobs with Bank of America, Wells Fargo, Duke Energy, TIAA-CREF, Carolina Health, etc. You know why we did not personally contact each other (and still haven’t) …it’s because we know that NONE of us were down there protesting.

You see, we (the ‘professional blacks’) have deemed Ourselves as the “special black people” because we are college educated with good jobs, and we are not about to join a protest with “those” black people. Because we’ve worked too hard to not be perceived as “those black people,” …we are different. You see, we “different/special Blacks” have the distinct, “mutant ability to smile, swap sugar and "bless your heart" into a false sense of normalcy and content. Each syrupy exchange, however, can be laced with a cold, biting dose of unspoken truths.” -Charles Easley.

We disassociate Ourselves from ‘the blacks’ (and ‘their’ issues) that live in disenfranchised communities like Beatties Ford Road, Central Avenue and Freedom Drive: Because we (“different/special Blacks”) now live in Ballantyne, Dilworth and/or Myers Park, and we ‘wear a special cape over our bodies that disguise all the prejudice that comes with our skin color.’ You see, we (“different/special Blacks”) just wait for liberal-hearted White People to stand up for those “other blacks” that we disassociate from. The only role we (“different/special Blacks”) have to play now is to Tweet and/or Facebook the arbitrary sentiment of, “Praying for Ya’ll.” (#PrayForCharlotte). (I hope you get my satirical point  and the capitalizations are on purpose).

As for Kaepernick, I would like to know what well-thought out RESULTS he initially wanted from his National protest (besides all the attention he is receiving)?? I would also like to know what civil rights activism that he has been ACTIVELY a part of before he decided to ‘take a knee??’ Was his entire point that; ‘America disrespects Blacks, so I am going to disrespect America?...
A great Biblical Proverb as quoted by Philosopher-Friedrich Nietzsche: “Beware that, when fighting monsters, you yourself do not become a monster...”

Again, brilliant article as usual Charles! And I am going to stop writing now before I write an entire book on your blog! Lol!

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Posted by DivaWoods on 09/30/2016 at 6:12 PM

Re: “Checking in after Charlotte unrest, and not on Facebook

My favorite column of yours ever! This is real truth. For so much of Charlotte, the vitriol is against protesters, not police brutality; the care if for property, not lives. Call it out and keep going. The time has passed for trying to educate or convince others of our humanity. There much more urgent need to protect ourselves and our rights deserves our energy.

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Posted by Emiene Wright on 09/30/2016 at 12:40 PM

Re: “Checking in after Charlotte unrest, and not on Facebook

Uh huh.

Sister Jones and that old deacon have me wanting to know if we should be expecting any others for comfort outside of those who look like the primary suffers.

I cannot help wondering how similar what we see today is to what took place centuries ago when people of color were being killed and there would be the same abiding silence. I think silence meant more than the absence of basic human cordialities then and I surmise it means more amid the noisy stillness today.

Perhaps we have been too difficult to reach, get in touch with, to contact. Perhaps we have not offered that we would like others folk to look in, see how we are doing. Perhaps we have not done a good job conveying that just because there have been nearly 200 African Americans killed this year --a great many unarmed --that it is okay if others who do not look like the victims and are openly aghast and outraged to come by and let us know. Sister Jones and old deacon usually don’t take too long with their petitions. Other looking folk are welcomed to follow them at our house or worship. Oh, if welcomed, we would gladly go to their churches as well.

Perhaps, just perhaps, we need to be, like these mounting killings, in plain view.

Something like:

“America, you are most welcome and encouraged to join African American and others in prayer and expressions of loving care during this time of deep abiding anguish, sorrow, and distress that has witnessed scores of unprovoked African American deaths and killings. We would be most thankful for your prayers of healing and recovery for us and for our whole nation. We know as one indivisible nation under God this would be exemplary of our collective citizenship.

“And as we make this formal, we accept that you may not be free to join us until after you have comforted the offending police departments and law enforcement agencies or completed honoring our nation’s promise with a stoic hand over heart, stand-at-attention national anthem recognition. That is fine. What matters most is that you know you are welcome to still come by and see how we are doing. Forgive any previous oversight.”


It’s done.

Maybe that is all we need to make Sister Jones and Old deacons exemplary offerings more multicultural....

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Posted by Tony-Tony Stark on 09/29/2016 at 11:24 AM

Re: “Checking in after Charlotte unrest, and not on Facebook

@SincerelySchan Thank you so much and I am very honored to have you as a fellow words smith now in my creative circle. Thank you for sharing.

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Posted by Charles Easley on 09/28/2016 at 6:46 PM

Re: “Checking in after Charlotte unrest, and not on Facebook

@Marty I know we try to support in our spirits but in a time where so much is coming at us it is in those very times some basic old fashioned rich communication is needed so that we do not misinterpret silence as being dismissive rather than I belive some are just being pensive. Even if it is to say I do not know what to say but I see you and I care. Your heart always comes from an honest place my friend. Thank you for sharing.

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Posted by Charles Easley on 09/28/2016 at 6:45 PM

Re: “Checking in after Charlotte unrest, and not on Facebook

@Will Brooks You have always been kind of an old soul Those are some very valid observations you share and folks should take note. It starts with how we participate in the system and reaching out and checking on those that you care about is important. Thank you for sharing.

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Posted by Charles Easley on 09/28/2016 at 6:40 PM

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