Im 56 and in Oregon and theres not any young guys here that want anything to do with anyone over 30. They wont even look at or give you the time of day. Its all about age discrimination, "member size", and how ""$$$genorous$$$"' you are or how much $$$ you're worth. I've always loved and desired to love a boy. But the way things in the world are going now I can see I will NEVER be able to share any love I have for a boy. Ive loved boys ever since I was 12. Seems the world dictates what a person can like or not like or people will discriminate against one for what they desire.
But on the other hand, if I ever try to tell others the same thing they tell me or I tell them what they can or can't like, Im told to shut up and they'll do or have whatever they want. And worst case, being told what I desire, if I don't stop and give it up at such an old age, threats of bodily harm have been addressed to me directly.
So I guess this is where boylove is now in 2019. Could be gone totally in 5yrs.