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Being a person of 40 now and looking back on my life I wish I'd never agreed to a relationship with an older man. I met him when I was 17, and he was 45. We've dated for years and years, however, once gay marriage became legal I wanted to get married. He's so opposed to it, he says we don't need a piece of paper to prove how much we love one another.
Well, he's now 68 years old, and has a little Hispanic guy working for him. My partner is always saying how much he appreciates the 22 year old Hispanic guy, and how hard the Hispanic guy works for him.
I used to work for him years ago doing a lot of the jobs the Hispanic guy does now, and when I mention it. My partner says I don't remember you ever doing these things, and then he'll say sorry I do remember. However, it's different with you because we're in a relationship, and he's alone.
He gives the Hispanic guy extra money for work, but not in checks (which are tax deductible) in cash. The Hispanic guy works for him, and he'll write him a check. Once my partner writes him a check he'll ask him "don't you think you deserve more money?" He'll then proceed to give him cash. I found out he was giving him cash because the Hispanic guy told me one day to tell my business partner he really appreciated the extra $50 he left in his tool box. I asked what? What do you mean an extra $50...he proceeded to tell me my (business note business) partner leaves extra cash in his tools quite often.
I confronted my partner about it and he said he'd done it only twice because he thought he didn't charge enough for his work. Well last Sunday the Hispanic guy was doing some work for us on a piece of our property, and I walked over to the back-door of the property. There was my partner staring at him, and my partner didn't realize I was standing there and said "Bless his heart he's working with his hands because the saw is broken". I said what? Partner was shocked I was in the room, and jumped.
I said what do you mean he's working with his hands, and what do you mean the saw is broken? He told me while he was using the saw to cut some limbs the saw broke, I asked how does a saw break itself? He then said the chain suddenly jumped off the saw, and the bar holding the chain got bent. I asked how? He said The Hispanic guy was using it and it got caught in a limb, and the chain suddenly jumped off the bar, and the bar bent.
MY point in writing this dissertation is because no matter what if an older man is attracted to younger guys/boys he's never going to change. I'm attracted to men, real men it's never crossed my mind to date a boy.
I don't buy the garbage some people just feel younger, and are attracted to younger guys because they have more in common with the younger guy. If that were true then why did we spend the first ten years of our relationship with me going to clubs, travelling with friends, etc. if he had more in common with me than his own peers.
Oh, we were in couple's therapy and on my mom's death bed my partner proceeded to tell me he was most attracted to guys 12 - 15 years old. I've been with the pedo for over twenty years of my life and he likes 'BOYS'.
In reference to the 13 year old boy being around the 50 year old man. Scream, yell, rant and rave in the streets if you have too, but just get that 13 year old boy away from that sick pervert. No mentor is going to ask a 13 year old boy to spend the night with him. It's not normal, and even if the child has come out and his parents, plus asked the old fart to be a mentor to him. They can find a much younger mentor. This man is a pervert...he likes boys, and no-one will ever convince me other-wise.
I was molested by my minister when I was 15, and I strongly believe it's the main reason I dated older men. There was a time I felt safe with older men, but younger men can make you feel just as safe. Younger men can fall in love, younger men can also have great sex with you without falling asleep.
I'm certain some gay people will blast me for writing this. However, there are far more gay men who are older attracted to younger guys than there ones attracted to men their own age. It’s a control thing…the younger man/boy is much easier to control. Men are men, no matter if they're gay, straight or bisexual...most all of them don't think with their minds.
My partner who I've dedicated my life to for over twenty years, and am tied up in business together is now looking at someone young enough to be his grandson. It' disgusting....
If he lives long enough they'll soon be young enough to be his great grandson.
