Im separated pending...
For me, I try my best (as a man) to take relationship/sex out of the equation. It allows me to be in the moment, without desire, and just enjoy the moment.
I can be terribly corny with my silly puns, but idc .. Im enjoying the moment. My only concern, is she enjoying herself too?
Whatever happens after that, is up to them. We can go out again, or not.
Going out with a friends attitude is better than going out hunting for something.