Sure, they’re generally narcissistic and walk around with a pseudo-importance during, and even years after, their 15 minutes of fame are up. But how many of us would turn down the opportunity to spend a summer in an LA mansion, being VIP at every club, and of course, drinking from a seemingly unlimited supply of alcohol provided by the show’s producers. I’d say, “Fuck my internship,” too.
Everyone you see partying, fighting, crying, bitching and ultimately building alliances to “survive” on reality TV has their own reason for auditioning and Charlotte native Kendra James’ was a whim.
She decided to road trip from Greensboro, where she was in college, with her girls to attend an open casting call in Charlotte, and after months of calls backs she found herself on season four of Oxygen’s Bad Girls Club. Sounds way hotter than the Biggest Loser.
We recently caught up with the Queen City resident turned reality show hottie and talked about her TV experience.
Creative Loafing: How long was the audition process for the Bad Girls Club?
Kendra: I started doing The Real World. I did seven interviews with Real World, and then they called me and said you didn’t make the Real World but do you want to try the Bad Girls Club and then I had three or four interviews with the Bad Girls Club.
Was it hard for you to drop everything and say, “I’m gonna go out here and live with a bunch of girls on TV”?
Well, Initially it was over the summer, so it was easy. I wasn’t in school, I didn’t really have any obligations, so it really easy for me to say I want to take this opportunity. But it ended up going over into the school year, so I had to push back my graduation date. I definitely wouldn’t change anything, but it definitely changed my plans a little bit.
What do you think the response is going to be when you get back there [UNCG]?
It’s going to be really really crazy. I think Greensboro’s going to be flipped upside down a little [laughing]. And people who thought they knew me won’t know me, and people that know me are going to be excited so it’s going to be mixture of responses, I think.
You’re a member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Inc., and stereotypically you wouldn’t associate AKAs with doing anything crazy. So what do you think people are going to think? Do you think your sorors are going to be mad at you?
At the end of the day, I know that the Kendra that is an AKA is still an AKA, but that doesn’t define the total person that I am. I’m still 22. I’m still young. I’m still going to make mistake. I’m still going to be controversial and my own personality, so I’m an AKA first, but I’m also a human being and a young woman for a reason. So people … they have to be realistic about what it is to be a woman, what it is to be in college and what it is to be in an organization, whether that’s a sorority or not.
You’ll be out in May [graduation] so what do you hope this leads to?
Right now it’s leading to a lot of opportunities. Just a lot of money making potential, I’m meeting a lot of people and being able to travel. That stuffs all well and good but I’m pre-law so my real, true goal is to go to law school and that’s never changed. So whatever happens with the show is fabulous but I also have another back up plan.
Once you get on this reality show alum circuit, the money making opportunities don’t dry up for a while. I mean you still see Real World people from years ago making money for club appearances, so what do you think the BGC will do for you in that sense?
Bad Girls Club, because it’s really new and really taking off, we haven’t seen the longevity of how long the girls can last from the show. But I think me personally, the BGC thing will fade away, and I can still be a personality in the spotlight.
It might very well pay for law school …
It might, and I definitely have a story for my entrance essays so it’s all good.
Being on the inside, what was the experience like living with a bunch of girls and having cameras tape everything? It’s not like you had to kiss Flavor Flav or anything.
What is so weird about TV is that the audience becomes a little bit naive to what it takes to make a TV show, and they think the only thing they see on TV is the only thing that happened. And that’s not the case. We were filmed for 24 hours a day, 75 days total; two and a half months, every minute of every day, and they can’t possibly show that in an 11-episode series. So you’re gonna miss a lot of things. Stories are going to be skewed a little bit, and you’re going to miss good times when they just want to see the fights and arguments. I’m available to defend every argument you see, but you have to realize, as a regular person, that that’s, of course, not it. And every time you see a fight and an argument, there’s like 15 people behind the camera that you don’t see, so it’s crazy.
Fifteen people NOT breaking it up … [laughing]
Mm hmm.
What’s been the response so far? Like, are you recognizable? Have you seen your Facebook friend additions go up?
Oh wow, yeah my Facebook and Twitter have really blown up! But that was expected. On the streets, not really yet. I’m sure after a couple episodes, it’ll get a little crazy. There’s definitely support out there but it’s definitely a lot of negativity, too, which I knew was going to happen. I mean, I’m not on The Apprentice I’m on The Bad Girls Club. People are happy to see Charlotte on TV. And yeah, you’re going to be a little upset [by] some things I do, but I think at the end of the day, everybody’s going to be proud.
So you’re not worried at all about how this may change your image or people’s perception of you?
Umm … [pause] no, no. I think If i was naive or a little bit dumb [laughing] it may skew me, but I’m so confident in what I did there. I’m confident in the progression and things that I’ve learned there that I’m ok with it. You know you can’t please everybody, but I definitely had great time. I definitely experienced some things that people only dream of experiencing, so the good outweigh the bad.
Given the nature of the show, was there any incentive for you to play it up a little more to be badder than you actually are?
There wasn’t any incentive but it was just the situation, know what I mean?
What else do you want to tell people in Charlotte?
I want them to know that, at the end of the day, I’m not some regular, dumb broad, wanting to flaunt everything on TV. They found me while I was in school, while I was studying for my LSATs, while I was still having fun, still wanting to be crazy but also knew how to act, so you’re going to see a mixture of it. Respect the reality of it, respect the fakeness of it, respect that I’m just a wanted to house sit out in LA. So you have to take it all in, you can’t just be negative about the whole thing.
Let’s be honest. Free rent, free booze and tense situations? We’d all have a drunken night and a drunken fight or two.
You can watch the Bad Girls Club Tuesdays at 10 p.m. EST on Oxygen. For more information on the show check out the Bad Girls Club Web site.
Mike McCray
This article appears in Dec 8-14, 2009.






Nice read, be interesting to see how you think about some of same questions at end of the season. Maybe recap some episodes or just your thoughts then.
She’s a gorgeous girl, and she seems really down to earth. It’s good to see that she has plans for her future other than trying to live off reality television fame like most of the other reality stars do.
Nasty and needless comments, Frank. Typical conservative attitude though, attacking somebody just for the hell of it.
I think Kendra is the most wonderful and gorgeous girl in the bad girls club and i can see thst she’s trying her best to achieve her goals, so kendra girl keep it up and don’t be a show off like the rest.
My fellow readers, I think in 2010 we should all resolve to turn the other cheek instead of bashing Frank Griffin no matter how hateful he turns towards everyone else. I noticed that in the last few hours on New Years Eve when the rest of us were spending time with family and friends, Frank was spending his time writing several posts on this blog. This tells me that while the rest of us were with loved ones he was all alone and bitter, friendless and with a family that doesnt want him around. Such a man should be pitied, not hated. Lets do our best to tolerate him in the new year. Peace and God bless.
Great read I love Kendra I thought she seemed somewhat a scared at times. I feel that she handled herself like a lady in most situations but, you can only take so much b4 you snap out on someone.
OK really I seen one episode where Nat was like she runs L.A. and kendra was like “yea its like that at home for me to”. I’m like girl I dont know you,nobody I know knows you even on Power98 nobody called in and said they know you. Just chill because from the looks of it your unknown hun!
Kendra is a sad soul. In the beginning of the season, she seemed like a beautiful, intelligent and down to earth girl. But quickly she became Natalie’s sidekick and puppet. It’s really sad to see someone turn into someone so vacant and desperately seeking attention from men by hoe-ing herself out and losing all dignity and self respect in the process. SAD.
KENDRA!!! YOUR A LOSER!!! YOUR NOT SHIT BUT A PUCK ASS WANNA BE!! YOU GIVE CHARLOTTE A BAD NAME…YOU HAVE NO BALLS ALL YOU DID THE WHOLE SHOW WAS FLIPP FLOP N FLOW WHAT THE SO CALLED “COOL” GIRL SAID TO DO! YOU DONT KNOW HOW TO FIGHT…YOU CAN’T EVEN FIND A MAN BY YOURSELF OXYGEN HAD TO DO IT FOR YOU HAHAHAHAHAHA IM REALLY HOPING I SEE YOU OUT AROUND CHARLOTTE SO I CAN SHOW YOU WHAT I REAL BAD GIRL IS LIKE
LMAO! Good luck honey getting a job that doesn’t involve pimping yourself out for a buck, at a reputable business. EVERYONE uses google to do their research and with all the scandal that you so willingly shared w/the world and your “tricks”, no company is going to want to taint their reputation w/the likes of you.
Kendra…You are a sad little girl! How could you go on national T.V. and screw so many random guys. You are a nasty tramp with no sense of direction. What you do now will follow you when you get older. If you want to save yourself, stop the slutty girl attitude and please stop being a follower!!! P.S. Please stop talking like a fake ass valley girl on your interviews….you are making Charlotte look bad!
Kendra , poor poor poor girl
I mean how can a mom and a dad go this wrong , bad job ! no body can be a slut overnight it needs years and years of culturing
Shame on u kendras Mom shame on you
As a lady of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc., an attorney and a resident of Charlotte, she disgusts me. I have seen her have a threesome, get into fights and act like a fool on national TV all in one episode. How is she making Charlotte residents and member of AKA proud? Do all people make bad decision in life? Yes. But most do not choose reality TV or even worst, the Bad Girls Club to exhibit those mistakes.
HA HA HA HA HA….this is hilarious reading all the post from beginning to end and how everyone loved her and now everyone realizes how big of a slut Kendra is….So sad that she really believes that her actions arent gonna hold her back from achieving her goals….
I mean i just cant believe how all yal’ll hating ass people are rally hating on Kendra i mean come on all ya’ll know if ya’ll haf achance to go on tv and have fun with no worries yall will do it i mean damn you only live once i just dont see how her enjoying herslf on tv will stop her from having a wonderful career people done did worst stuff then that and dtill made it in this world i just think its sad people really hates on black young girls trying to make it int his world and have a little fun on the way get so much shit talked about them, and to the AKA sister all ya’ll hoes phony anyways and have so much baggage with yall i dont understabd who would want to be apart of such a fake sisterhood and to the city of charlotte who hating on Kendra Grow up it get over it im not even from charlotte in i give mad props to Kendra because eveybody has a bad side soooooooo quit hating on the girl its sooooo NOT Cute! PS: Kendra keep doing yo thang Shake dem Haters OFF!!!!!!
Kendra,I think you are a beautiful girl and a whole lotb of fun!!!! i’d hag outb with you anytime!!!! I think it is great that you have goals for yourself besides just trying to get off on a piece of fame… Keep your head up and keep working toe]wards what you want to do…you said it best when you said “I’m 22, Ican make mistakes!!!!”…lol… I’m so feeling you on that one mama…. by the way you loooked great @ Bb kINGS YHE OTHER DAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! IWAS INN THE BUILDING
Hello kendra as u see my name is kendra as well…lol I want to say I’m happy for u, do your thing. I’m kinda happy we have another person doing up from north carolina. I would like to ask u a couple questions,and if u don’t mind u can leave your answers send them to my email which is kendrawoodard20@yahoo.com. 1. How did u hear about the opening for bad girls club? 2. Did u think twice about leaving school? 3. Do you think the show change you a little? Kendra I am a big fan of you..and it would b nice to get your respone back. If not find to but I can say I tryed.
I do not comment forums or blogs, but after reading this interview, I felt compelled to comment. I watch the show and this interview reinforced a few things I’ve gathered from the show…She lacks a great deal of substance and her responses are painstakingly repetitive. To put it politely..she’s a dolt. She might get into a few desperate, low-rated law schools because she came from an uncredited school. She prob studies WAY too hard b/c she doesn’t have the intellectual capacity to understand concepts like the average human being. Good luck with that, dude.
I can appreciate the conditions of the show…I know it would push me to the edge as well, but wow, I actually put the tv on mute when she starts screeching like a wild banshee. This girl is a joke. I’d love to put her in her place like every other girl on that show. It’s cool that nothing phases her to a degree, but wake up..you are nothing.
Kendra’s is the realist….I respect her!
kendra isz FUCKIN UGLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
UGH!!!! kendra is so nasty i hope that she will see her gyn when she gets home it seems like she did half of la no respect at all for herself
Okay people first kendra isn’t ugly she is definaly my type a gurl, she may have done what she did on tv but hey, if you hade your time to shine what would you have done at 22 in la,on tv!!! I respect her 100 percent.I’m from raleigh,nc.no shame here
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Kendra is a young, beautiful girl, and NO ONE is perfect. She was on a reality show, so people automatically judge her ONLY on the things they saw on T.V. this is not realistic. You don’t know the girl…focus on your OWN mistakes instead of judging someone else for theirs..all of that hatred you have towards another is just self hatred in what you fail to see in yourself. Thumbs up Kendra. You have many fans. Rock on girl.
KENDRA,
YOU WERE MY FAVORITE WHEN I STARTED WATCHING THE SHOW BUT WHEN YOU STARTED TO HANGOUT WITH NATILIE FOR THE FAME IT WAS A LITTLE BIT DISGUSTIN BUT MOST OF ALL YOU HAVING SEX ON TELEVISION WITH STRANGERS. I FEEL SORRY FOR YOUR PARENTS TO HAVE TO WATCH THAT AND WALK AROUND YOUR TOWN. BUT YOU’RE YOUNG AND I TRULY HOPE YOU WATCH THE SHOW AND LOOK BACK ON THINGS AND DEFINITELY LEARN A WHOLE LOT FROM THIS EXPERIENCE. IM QUITE SURE YOU’RE GONNA REGRETT MORE THAN ANY OF THE GIRLS. MAY GOD BLESS YOU WITH YOUR CAREER IN LAW.
Kendra you do look like a slut on t.V. But” its t.V.” good luck girl I hope this will boost your growing fame but be a smart bitch not a dumb bitch remember that
Its a shame that people would do anything to be on TV or for money.I always thought that AKAs are classy not trashy and to make matters worst I watched this show faithfully and she and Natalie were the nastiest two on the show.I am so ashamed of our sisters going this low.What will happen one day when you want to settle down and get married and have a family.A womans reputation follows them all of their life whether it is good or bad.
To the previous post:
First of all if you thought all AKA’s were classy you were a fool to begin with. Also Kendra’s chapter is known for being WHORES! They knew Kendra was a whore before they put her down, so that right there tells you that that type of behavior isn’t frowned upon in the chapter. In fact, her bigs were whores and their bigs were whores as well. How do I know this? Hahahahaha just know that I know.
Kendra it was a big mistake to ho yourself out on TV, if you want to thought of as legitimate anytime in the future. A lawyer? You’ll have to start your own firm, because you won’t get hired. The person who said you’ll be Gooled was right. And if your an AKA, your representing them, in whatever you do. How many guys did you pick up and have one night sex with? And now, our doing it on another show. For so many women to find nothing wrong with what you did, is puzzling. There’s definitely an element in society today that doesn’t care about caring themselves with class. Sad to say, you have proven to be a member of that group.
We’ve got to be more aware of what we represent. What she doesn’t realize is all the girls that were once interested in becoming in a member of AKA watching this show and being turned off by her behavior. It’s more than us. And just in case you were wondering, I’m a member of the Omega Psi Phi Fraternity, INC.
Ace of LE Spring 2008
why do yall keep callin her a hoe how do yall kno if she slept wit that many men!if she did she can do that bcuz she single!yall jus mad cuz she can get a man n yall cant!wat a bunch of haters!
why are yall callin her a hoe yal need 2 talk about kate n how she cheated on her boyfriend wit a women!datz just nasty!ewww!
GIRL!!! U did your thing and i respect you in so many ways. Part of life is making mistakes and then learning from them just remember noboby is perfect. Just keep doing your thing you’re a beauitful classy young lady. LOVE YA(: