Last night I was talking to a very good friend of mine who shares my love of porn.
She said lately she has been wanting to try something that she’s seen in the movies.
“Bondage?” I ask.
“I want to be fucked with a strap-on,” she said. “I just want it to be a one time thing. It looks like so much fun.”
“Yeah, if Nina Hartley is wearing the strap-on,” I replied.
“She does toss those women around and she loves what she does. But I think it would be best if I do it with someone who’s just curious, like me.”
“But what if she sucks at it? Don’t you think you ought to do it with someone who knows how to work the equipment?”
“That’s a good point.”
“You don’t need Katy Perry for this. You need Nina Hartley.”
After our conversation ended, I started thinking about women and sex. And it hit me, everybody always wants to have sex with a woman. What is it about our bodies that draw both sexes to us?
At some point do all women want to get it on with another girl? And if we want to be with another woman, why is it that we have to use male shaped toys? Like a strap-on fuck — isn’t that just a girl playing “daddy?”
I hope my friend has fun finding her strap-on lova. I wonder if they will video tape it, because I’d like to watch.
This article appears in Jan 13-20, 2009.
Hello! Nina Hartley here. Thanks for the great story. It’s a real compliment and I greatly appreciate it.
As to the question, ” And if we want to be with another woman, why is it that we have to use male shaped toys? Like a strap on fuck–isn’t that just a girl playing “daddy?””
For women who like penetration with their sex, the best toys for strap on use are not necessarily the same toys one would choose for hand-held work. So, “male shaped” toys happen to fit well in harnesses and are suited to the task at hand.
Some women play with gender roles, and some like age play, and some like daddy play, all of which can be incorporated into a play session. In my experience, however, more than role playing on the part of my partner it’s more of a sensual pleasure. These women like penetration combined with the feel of a body attached and they’re just going with it. More of a “because it freaking feels fanTAStic!” kind of thing.
Thanks again!
Wow! Nina Hartley! I am so impressed!
Love your website and allllllllllll of your movies.
You are an inspiration!