This weekendโs festivities were accompanied by some close friends visiting from college. While a couple of them had visited the Queen City before, it was one of my friendsโ first time. Itโs always great having old friends in town, but you immediately get tasked with the itinerary, which can be overwhelming. Itโs especially true when youโre supposed to be somewhat of a nightlife guru and youโre constantly torn between turning up and sleeping all day.
Two out of my three friends arrived on Thursday. We met up at Brazwellโs Premium Pub on Montford where I was already too excited to put food in my stomach. Coincidentally, a co-worker who recently decided to leave my day-job company had already planned on spending the night in the area, so I could kill two birds with one stone. Before heading to Jeffโs Bucket Shop โ that co-workerโs fave spot to get tipsy and sing Taylor Swift and Vanilla Ice unhindered โ my college friends and I stopped by Barreled at the Lift.
After a couple of drinks and an orange mint hookah, we were reminiscing about the good olโ days and walked to Jeffโs, also one of my favorite holes in the wall. While my friends were a little thrown off by the neon sign and narrow stairwell leading down to an even more sketchy alleyway, it was only a few seconds before one of them was ordering a round of shots โ Jรคgerbombs to be exact. #triggergagreflex
Next thing you know, my alarm was startling me out of my sleep as I still had to adult and go to work. I managed to make it through the day with a mild hangover. All I could think about was heading to Soul Gastrolounge โ the featured venue for the night.
Most of my friends and I are foodies so food is always at the top of the list when we are planning things to do on a visit. Soul being my absolute favorite restaurant in the city, I knew it wasnโt an option not to find time to go. If youโre familiar with the spot you wonโt be surprised to know we had to wait for almost three hours. This meant grabbing a snack at Peculiar Rabbit and a beer at Twenty-Two while we waited.
Boy was that a mistake. I couldnโt even eat when we finally sat down in my favorite Q.C. staple. Seeing their excited reactions to the menu, however, was well worth it. Even after being super full, I managed to convince them to stop by L4 Lounge for the infamous Shark Attack โ a fishbowl, most likely designed for sharing that I always encourage guests to get by themselves. #fridaynightsuccess
Saturday morning was a slow start, believe it or not. But there was no time for whining as we prepared for day drinking. After all, it was time for Rich & Bennettโs 16th Annual St. Patrickโs Day Pub Crawl, apparently the largest organized Pattyโs Day crawl in the world? I hadnโt participated in the three years Iโd lived in Charlotte, so I figured we should give it a try.
We opted out of getting t-shirts after realizing the $25 we were going to pay would only get us free entry into participating venues. And while we were nostalgic for collegiate days past, we knew we wouldnโt make it all day so I just picked out a few spots for us to go.
We fueled up at Common Market in Plaza Midwood and then grabbed a couple of craft beers before heading Uptown to the world of domestics. Our first stop was Istanbul Hookah Lounge. Greeted by hundreds of green t-shirt wearing drunkards, I was happy to learn this spot had rooms upstairs where we could hide from the aggressiveness in French Quarter.
Our group shared a couple hookahs, had our fair share of the featured drink โ liquid Marijuana โ and then took off to RรญRรกโs patio before catching Rooftop 210. My plan was to leave straight from EpiCentre and head to The Scorpio โ Charlotteโs oldest LGBT dance club โ to catch a show, but an extended break at my condo forced me to tap out.
My friends, however, were troopers and still made it. They even walked to Cook Out on Freedom Drive afterwards for a 3 a.m. taste of the South they had sorely missed.
We ended the weekend with brunch at Napa on Providence. The grilled hanger steak and eggs are amazing and bottomless mimosas are only $13?! Need I say more?
Where are your fave places to take friends and family when theyโre visiting you in the Queen City?
This article appears in Mar 9-15, 2016.





After reading all your articles, I finally got to experience Charlotte with you….had the best time and can’t wait to return. I love you to infinity and beyond!