Now I have heard all the excuses, “I can’t find stuff that fits.” “It costs too much.” “No one else is gonna see it.” “It isn’t gonna be on that long anyway.” “Who cares?” I know there are more of them, but at the end of the day, my answer is the same: Do the work and find matching sets. It’s worth it. Here’s why.
If you feel sexy and confident, you act sexy and confident. It starts with you. When you look good, you feel good. When you feel good, you play good. Your inner attitude is always displayed on the outside. People can tell when you have a little extra “pep in your step.” When you leave the house and NO ONE can tell you you don’t look good, there’s an air of confidence that is extremely attractive. Trust me. There is nothing sexier than a confident woman.
Your man will appreciate it. There’s a reason Victoria’s Secret does so well. They understand that men are visual creatures. We are attracted to what we can see and what we can feel. That’s why the Swimsuit Edition of Sports Illustrated is always a big hit. We love to see you match. It’s sexy. It’s a turn-on. There’s nothing like unwrapping a present and having a beautiful gift inside. Man, you can’t wait to play with it! You ever notice in all the magazine ads you see that the sets match? It’s because it’s sexier. PERIOD!! Some of you have been married for a while and let’s just say, the fire doesn’t burn as hot as it used to. I bet you’re wearing a nightgown, or worse, a freaking extra long T-shirt to bed ever night. Nothing says “Come and get me, big boy” like an outfit that reminds him of his grandmother, especially when they come with the ultimate turnoff tool: granny panties.
I know right now, some of you are saying: “My man doesn’t care.” Yes he does! There are few who don’t. But they are a rarity. Just because he doesn’t say anything about it doesn’t mean he doesn’t care. Some men have conceded the fact that they are only gonna win so many arguments. He isn’t gonna waste it on this particular battle. So I’m taking it up for him. Step up your underwear game.
As I said earlier, you’re grown. Do what you want to do. But my suggestion is get off the excuse wagon and get some matching underwear. Go online, do some research. If it were important enough, you would find it. I’m sure if you were gonna have a night out with the man of your dreams, you would take the time to find every necessary item you needed to make the night special, including matching underwear. And oh yea, for those of you who disagree, before I sent this article in, I asked a number of friends about this, male and female, and they agreed with it.
William Wilson is a nationally respected men’s clothier and image consultant. His clients include professional athletes, CEOs, and corporations. His homepage is www.WilliamtheClothier.com. Follow William on Twitter: www.Twitter.com/theclothier or on Facebook at www.facebook.com/williamtheclothier.
This article appears in Aug 11-18, 2009.
“I know right now, some of you are saying: “My man doesn’t care.” Yes he does!”
No, he most likely doesn’t. I sure as hell don’t. When a woman’s clothes come off, I’m not interested in whether or not her bra matches her panties. I’m more interested in removing those, too. But hey, maybe you’re not into that.
Also, what your “friends” said is irrelevant. Do yourself a favor, and take the time to get familiar with the concept of anecdotal evidence.
Presentation is important, though, which is exactly why one shouldn’t go around linking to ugly, amateurish web sites in his bio. One especially shouldn’t do that when he’s attempting to market himself as someone with even a modicum of style.
Dude, I fully agree! When my lady is matching, IT’S GO TIME. There is nothing sexier. I’ve tried to tell her that but she doesn’t listen. I’m glad you said it. Preach on brother!!!!! Who ever CC is is out of his mind. He sounds like he’s just happy to see underwear period.
CC Sounds like an angry man, that needs a hug. Personally, I wouldn’t turn my lady down if she doesn’t match, but I really do appreciate it when she does. The fact that CC is only interested in taking them off tells us all that he’s selfish and it’s all about him. If my lady takes the time to match, I’m gonna take the time to appreciate it. I may take it off later (of course), but I do appreciate when she does it. Don’t let him stop you man, drop that knowledge kid.
I wouldn’t dare leave my house without matching. I take special pride in my appearance and that includes my underwear. I like to feel sexy, even if no one else EVER sees it. Clothier, you are the man. BTW- I think you look hot on your website too. Congrats on all of your success. I hope to meet you one day.
AMEN!! You are the man! I wasn’t gonna say anything until I read CC’s comments. I have been telling my girlfriends to match for years. When I leave the house, I always match. I work hard on my body and I want it to look good, and I want everything that goes on it to look good. I send my husband pictures of me sometimes just to tease him when I buy a new set.
Don’t let idiots like CC stop you William. You bring it every week. Do your thing man, and help us keep our games up.
Clothier- You are my new hero! Thank you! Maybe my girl will read this and step it up!LOL
Great article-well said!
Man, CC needs to get back on his meds. Why is he so upset man? I don’t think it’s really a guy. I bet it’s a girl that’s just mad because she got called out. That’s why she’s attacking. You said “Do what you want to do.” If they don’t wanna match they don’t have to. For someone to get that childish and immature as to attack a well written and factual article- says a lot about their style. I met William at an event and not only was he EXTREMELY stylish, but very friendly. He even took a picture with me, and spoke to my little sister on the phone. I’m a fan. CC get a life.
CC- Get a clue! Clothier- Keep it coming!
If “Tom”, “AM”, “Derrick”, and “Little Willy” really ARE men who care about whether or not a girl’s bra matches her panties, it’s only because they want to try them on after she goes to work.
And “Derrick”, really? “Well-written”? Compared to what, a third grade book report? Get an education.
It’s hard enough to keep my socks matching. LOL! No, seriously… most matching undies and bras are not comfortable to me, with all their itchy lace and up the butt wedgey status. I’ll stick to my Hanes and Fruit of the Loom underwear packs, where I know I’ll have a comfortable day.
Maybe if my man starts caring about his underwear, I’ll start caring what he thinks about mine. Really, though… what’s the point of boxers? They don’t give any support, and if they are walking around in just boxers the penis flops out. Not attractive.