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Friday, June 12, 2009
Today’s Top(less) 5 Today's Top(less) 5: Friday
Posted By Cheris Hodges on Fri, Jun 12, 2009 at 6:30 AM
Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today, June 12, 2009 — as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.
•Nothing risque, nothing gained.
•Party until 5 a.m. at Club Onyx.
•Start your party at breakfast at The Men's Club.
•Martini madness at Dilworth Billiards.
• Tribute to The DJ.
Thursday, June 11, 2009
He said/She said I ain't calling you a gold digger
Posted By Shameika René on Thu, Jun 11, 2009 at 5:15 PM
Picture this:
Fancy cars, big house, lazy days lounging around the pool, expensive clothes, a nanny for the rugrats, a chef, and a significant other that says: "Oh quit your job. You don't have to work, I got you.”
Blink. Blink. Blink.
Let me give you your weekly dose of reality. It’s 2009, and if all your limbs are working and the industry you work in hasn’t been slapped silly by the recession, get your ass out and do the damn thing and get your own ish.
Being independent is what's in — not trying to get your gold-dig on.
Someone once told me that it's better to marry for money rather than love.
Wow.
Silly me. I still believe in the theory that boy meets girl, boy and girl fall in love. I guess now it's: boy meets girl, one uses the other for money and all is well in the land of fairy tales.
It's amazing to me how we've gotten away from seeking a fulfilling relationship to go after someone with the three Bs — the Benz, the Bling, and the Benjamins.
Whatever happened to getting to know someone despite what's in his or her bank account?
For example, as soon as people found out that I appeared on a reality show, my stock went up. Mofos that I had forgotten about, written off or even told to kick rocks were coming out the woodwork thinking they were going to be able to get money out of me. Jokes on them — because too bad they don't know that not all reality shows pay the big bucks (but that's a whole 'nother blog).
Or what about the man that's using his God given talents and pursuing his dreams and just so happens to be able to make stacks of money doing it?
He gets put on that list of a gold diggers "dream team." Not one time does the gold digger take into consideration the type of man this is.
"What you mean Meik?"
Well, first off (if the research was not done beforehand) you might just find out he could be crazy as hell, likes wearing Scooby Doo under roo's or he could simply be a good guy.
These days, its sad, but it seems that no one takes the time to get to know each other.
Instead it becomes a Destiny's Child remake of "Bills, Bills, Bills."
Here's a shocker for those that are trying to Anna Nicole Smith someone:
Relationships are all about give and take. If you're blessed enough to find a baller, then kudos to you! But, can you honestly sit back and say you'd still be boo'd up with that person if he was the average Joe making a salary of $25,000 or less?
If the answer is resounding "Oh Hell to the Naw!" Then allow me to pass you my pink mirror so you can look yourself in the face and say, " I just might be a gold digger."
Lesson Learned: Try to look at the person as a whole instead of how you can benefit from how much cheddar is in the bank. I'm sure you've heard the old saying, "money can't buy you love.” Now take that to the bank.
He said/She said Making sex better for both of you
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Thu, Jun 11, 2009 at 10:15 AM
A lot of articles are written about how to make sex better for her or him, but how do you make sex better for the both of you?
Women's magazines focus on what women should do to please a man and men's magazines focus on how to make a woman scream. But sometimes, you just want romance novel sex.
And you can have it.
Sex actually starts before you get in the bed. Good sex begins with foreplay, great sex starts with an emotional connection. Say you're married and your mate does something that warms your heart, like taking the kids to the park and running around with them as if he or she is a six year old. So, you decide to cook his or her favorite dinner and send the kids to grandma's.
Little surprises like this can get the ball rolling. Your mate is surprised and willing to thank you in a most intimate way.
Another way to make sex better for you and your mate is by indulging in your fantasies. And all fantasies don't involve threesomes or S&M, but if that's what you want and your mate is down for it, go with the flow. But have you ever wanted to have sex under the stars? Check the Weather Channel for the next clear night and make it happen. Of course, you're going to have to find out what your mate wants and help their dreams come true as well. Sex is about more than one person, unless it's just you and the toy.
Today's Top(less) 5: Thursday
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Thu, Jun 11, 2009 at 6:30 AM
Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today, June 11, 2009 — as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.
• Chocolate Summer Camp.
• Have a penthouse dance at The Gold Club.
• Surf, Turf and breasts.
• Hotel Pool Party.
• Biggest Girl's night out ever.
Wednesday, June 10, 2009
Hard News Sex news roundup: Wednesday
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Wed, Jun 10, 2009 at 11:49 AM
Here's a look at some sex-related news stories on the Web.
Hard News Just because it's kinky to you: David Carradine's death
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Wed, Jun 10, 2009 at 11:18 AM
CNN Headline News has the market cornered on judgmental women parading around as journalists. First there was Nancy Grace and now it's Jane Valez Mitchell and her fucking issues.
Last night, she spent at least an hour talking about the death of actor David Carradine.
Carradine liked S&M. Some reports say he was found tied up and hanging in a closet and it had a sexual connotation to it. And?
Does it make his death less tragic because he wanted to have sex that wasn't just missionary? And who does Jane think she is, judging a dead man by his sexual tastes. I forget the name of the so-called expert who was on her show, but this woman said Carradine was sick because of what he wanted to do in the bedroom.
Sick? Really? Was he having sex with children, because that's sick. Wanting to explore erotica isn't sick.
At the bottom of the screen, there was a headline flash that Carradine like to ride horseback in his Speedos. And? His horse, his property, his business.
His ex-wife is quoted on newkerala.com saying:
"David was pretty strange. He would like to get tied up. He would tie himself up and I would walk in and see him and say, 'Oh my God, David, you got to be kidding me' - and I would (turn around and) walk out," the Daily Express quoted her as revealing in an interview at the weekend."I would leave him to his own devices. He liked to be tied up. And he could tie himself up... He spent days planning a different feature. He would go to a hardware store and buy the stuff," she said.
But Jensen also admitted to TMZ.com that even though Carradine enjoyed bondage, "it was never sexual."
So, has the "Kung Fu" and "Kill Bill" actor been reduced to this? He's the guy who like bondage and now he's dead?
Just because he wanted something different from sex or liked to tie himself up for whatever reason, it doesn't make him sick. But for people who can't find anything else to talk about--while this man's family morns--then maybe you're the sick one.
Today’s Top(less) 5 Today's Top(less) 5: Wednesday
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Wed, Jun 10, 2009 at 10:07 AM
Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today, June 10, 2009 — as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.
• Ladies' Night Line Dancing at Coyote Joe's.
• Salsa social.
• Fabulous Feast at The Men's Club
• Wet Wednesday.
• Flirt at The Forum.
Tuesday, June 9, 2009
Hard News Sex news roundup: June 9, 2009
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Tue, Jun 9, 2009 at 11:43 AM
Here's a look at the sex headlines floating around the Internet today.
- Adam Lambert talks about sex.
- Heather Graham loves tantric sex.
- Sex seminar aims to help women.
- Mel B's secret sex weapon.
- Banker killed during S&M sex.
Today’s Top(less) 5 Today's Top(less) 5: Tuesday
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Tue, Jun 9, 2009 at 6:30 AM
Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today, June 9, 2009 — as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.
•Heights of Fashion.
•South of the Border Tuesday.
•Earth, Wind and Fire and Chicago.
•Ladies Night at Caveman's.
• Two for Tuesday at The Crazy Horse.
Monday, June 8, 2009
Video A Lesson in how to be sexy
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Mon, Jun 8, 2009 at 10:46 AM
This is kind of funny.
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Woman dies from masturbation 38
I thought killing yourself while experiencing an orgasm was just an old wives' tale.
