Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Is man sharing the new dating?

Posted By on Tue, Nov 3, 2009 at 2:28 PM

If you live in Charlotte, you probably think a good man is hard to find. Although I think a hard man is good to find, I digress.

Guys who have their shit together are few and far between in Charlotte. Those guys who have no drama,  are disease free and childless -- know they are in high demand.

Therefore, they are exploring their options. Who can blame them?

But if you don't want to be someone's option or a cookie in his package, then follow these steps.

1. Be up front about what you want.

2. Trust what he says about what he wants.

3. Explore your own options. Just because you sleep with a hot guy, it doesn't mean you want him to be your boyfriend.

4. If you want a serious relationship, say so up front before you get your feelings hurt.

5. Don't do what you're not comfortable with. If you don't want to share, you don't have to.

Men like variety, as all of my male friends who have cheated or are cheaters keep telling me. Women can experience it too.

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