Thursday, September 30, 2010

Divorce and bigamy in Rowan County

Posted By on Thu, Sep 30, 2010 at 3:47 PM

Something caused a 49-year-old Salisbury woman to say, I want a divorce.

She and her husband had been a married for 29 years, according to police and media reports. Well, somewhere in Rowan County, there's another wife he's been married to for four years.

Lt. Terry Agner told WBTV that a 49-year-old Salisbury woman came to the Sheriff's office to report that she was seeking a divorce from her husband of 29 years.

That's when investigators say she discovered that her husband had married another woman in 2006.

The case has been forwarded to detectives for investigation.

It seems like every year some marriage ends because the husband has more than one wife — which is illegal people!

In 2008 a Cramerton man was trying to divorce his two wives and got busted.

Police have arrested a Cramerton man on bigamy charges.

Authorities told the Gaston Gazette that Robert Cribb married a woman named Teresa Bradley while he was still being married to his wife, Lisa Cribb.Police said Robert married the other woman so that she could legally leave South Carolina despite being on probation, and police said he told them he is trying to get a divorce from both wives. Cribb has been released from jail on $10,000 bond.

There is even a police officer from this area who was caught up in bigamy.

A police officer in a North Carolina town has been fired after he was charged with bigamy for getting married without divorcing his first wife.

Monroe police chief Debra Duncan said Tuesday that Darryl Howard was charged and then released on $1,000. Howard's court date is Dec. 4.

Duncan says the former officer has a wife in Monroe whom he married in 1986. He later married a woman in without getting a divorce. The officer was charged after the second wife tipped police.

Howard has worked at the Monroe department since 2002.

Duncan said the case shows that police officers are not above the law.

Some of you single ladies out there should be glad you didn't run across one of these multiple-marrying guys to get a ring put on it.

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Today's Top(less) 5: Thursday

Posted By on Thu, Sep 30, 2010 at 6:30 AM

Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today, May, 6, 2011 — as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.

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• Leather and Lace at The Estate

• Charlotte's Happiest Happy Hour at Uptown Cabaret

• Whisky Friday Night at Whisky River

• 2 for 1 admission at MAL Clubs

• Late Night Breakfast at The Men's Club

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Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Nothin' but a number

Posted By on Wed, Sep 29, 2010 at 4:55 PM

Alison

A girlfriend of mine recently went on a date with a guy 11 years her senior. She is 28. He is 39. Or as she likes to say it: Thirty nine.

Blinded by his youthful good looks, she didn’t realize he was much older until she asked him the year he was born.

“1970 as in … ’78? ’79? Oh, ’70 as in seventy. Just ’70. Right. Gotcha.”

She saw his house filled with beautiful things and learned he was in the market for a second one. It was precisely this moment when the crisis began: I’m almost 30. Am I ever going to grow up? How would he feel dating someone who is nowhere near this level of “adulthood”? If age really is nothing but a number, why do I still feel like a kid?

In your early years, there are obvious problems with dating someone too far outside your age group. He’s heading out to a frat party; you have to be home for curfew. You have an exam in the morning; he’s giving a presentation to his CEO. He’s buying a vacation home; you live at home.

But we’re beyond that. We’re all adults now. Right?

Wrong.

Even though we’re past the obvious generational differences of our late teens and early 20s, “adult” is still a relative term. What counts now is not so much your numeric age, but your level of maturity. Forget “half your age plus seven.” Relationships are about growing together, and you can’t do that if you’re in two different stages of development. And we don’t all develop at the same pace.

Fortunately, as we approach and enter our 30s, our mental age begins inching toward harmony with our physical age. The brain isn’t even full developed until 26, which probably explains the refreshing dose of clarity that accompanies our ascent into this new phase of our lives. At this point, we all have jobs and homes (or are working toward one) and, most importantly, we seem to finally have similar wants and needs as our partners, allowing us to date a bit more comfortably outside our age group.

Although my friend felt inferior dating her older man, I think she may have been confusing age with material success. What was in their heads mattered more than what was in his house (or how many he had). And fortunately for her, there was good stuff in both. The only thing that could have been potentially disastrous in that scenario is a story that begins with “When I was in high school …” And at this stage in life, that’s nothing that can’t be fixed with a little humor.

— Alison Henry

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S.C. deputy charged with rape

Posted By on Wed, Sep 29, 2010 at 4:20 PM

A Charleston deputy is in the worst kind of trouble right now, he's accused of rape.

Charleston is one of the cities Creative Loafing highlighted in our summer guide and is a destination trip for people in our area. So, that makes this allegation of rape by a law enforcement officer scary and damaging.

Here's what allegedly happened:

Multiple media outlets reported that police arrested 25-year-old Pressley LeGrande Gaskins and charged him with first-degree criminal sexual conduct and kidnapping after he surrendered to investigators Tuesday.

Charleston sheriff's Chief Inspector Mark Fields says Gaskins has been placed on administrative leave without pay until the case is resolved. Gaskins had been with the department for three years.

Affidavits say the woman was held against her will and Gaskins repeatedly assaulted her Sept. 23.

The woman told police she had been drinking at a bar and met the officer, who followed her when she went out to smoke.

The problem in cases like these is that most of the public will automatically side with the law enforcement officer. How else can Charlotte explain how former Charlotte Mecklenburg Police Officer Marcus Jackson got away with his alleged crimes for so long?

According to RAINN, an anti-assault organization:

Sexual assault is one of the most under reported crimes, with 60% still being left unreported.

It's easy to see why when stories about law enforcement officers accused of sexual assault keep popping into the headlines.

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Today's Top(less) 5: Wednesday

Posted By on Wed, Sep 29, 2010 at 6:30 AM

Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today, September 29, 2010 — as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.

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• Fabulous Feast Wednesday at The Men's Club

• Wednesday Night Salsa Social

• Wet Wednesday at Leather and Lace SouthEnd

• Midweek on Fifth Street at Attic Bar

• Pure Wednesday at Halo

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Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Mecklenburg County channels Maury, offers paternity testing

Posted By on Tue, Sep 28, 2010 at 4:12 PM

That baby doesn't look like you and you're not trying to pay child support for 18 years and on that child's birthday you find out you are not the father.

Believe it or not, the state doesn't want that to happen to you either. The Charlotte Observer is reporting that Mecklenburg County is offering paternity testing for all men in North Carolina questioning if the child is theirs or not.

The genetic testing will be offered from 7 a.m. to 7 p.m. Oct. 5 to 7 at the Mecklenburg County Child Support Enforcement Office, which is located at 5800 Executive Center Dr. in east Charlotte.

Christy Stacy, a child support supervisor, said the test, which includes a DNA sample, may take about 15 minutes, and potential fathers need to bring photo identification with them. The child and mother do not need to be present, but their DNA samples will be needed to complete the test.

Stacy said the event will be open to men alleged to be the fathers of children in North Carolina. If the child doesn’t live in Mecklenburg, she said information would be forwarded to the child support office where the child lives.

Stacy said results from the test should be available in three to four weeks. If the result is positive — meaning the child, father and mother match — there will be a charge of up to $90.

You better be sure that you're not the father if you take part in this testing — at the child support office — because I'm sure you have to give all of your information if you want to participate and if you are the father, they're going to get you.

I just wonder if any of this will be going on when the test results come back:

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Today's Top(less) 5: Tuesday

Posted By on Tue, Sep 28, 2010 at 6:30 AM

Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today, September 28, 2010 — as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.

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• $5 Don Julio at Uptown Cabaret

• SIN Night at Tilt

• $2 Tuesday at Club Onyx

• $2 Taco Tuesday at The Men's Club

• Boots and Bikinis at Whisky River

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Monday, September 27, 2010

Today's Top(less) 5: Monday

Posted By on Mon, Sep 27, 2010 at 6:30 AM

Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today, September 27, 2010 — as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.

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• Steak and Shrimp Monday at The Men's Club

• Monday Effen Monday at Uptown Cabaret

• Chubby's Karaoke at Dixie's Tavern

• Monday Night Pint night at The Dandelion Market

• $20 Package at Leather and Lace Southend

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Friday, September 24, 2010

Today's Top(less) 5: Friday

Posted By on Fri, Sep 24, 2010 at 6:30 AM

Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today September 24, 2010 — as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.

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• World's Longest Happy Hour Party at Howl At The Moon

• Club Insomnia at The Gold Club

• After-Hours Party at The Men's Club

• Charlotte's Happiest Happy Hour at The Uptown Cabaret

• Grin and Bare It at The Estate

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Thursday, September 23, 2010

Today's Top(less) 5: Thursday

Posted By on Thu, Sep 23, 2010 at 6:30 AM

Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today September 23, 2010 — as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.

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• Cigar Evenings at The Sunset Club

• Uptown Thursday Night at BAR Charlotte

• NY International Fringe Festival featuring Two Girls at Neighborhood Theatre

• Thirsty Thursday at Baby Dolls

• Champagne Thursday at Club Onyx

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