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Friday, December 12, 2008
Pep in your step Getting bad sex? Talk about it
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Fri, Dec 12, 2008 at 9:21 AM
The only thing worse than no sex is bad sex.
Unless your partner has a medical problem, you can make bad sex better.
How?
Talk it out.
In an article from Lifescript.com, experts say:
Bad sex is like being stuck in gridlock traffic: You’re there for the duration. And you wonder (with a mix of disappointment and frustration) if you’re ever going get where you want to be.
Amen to that. Some partners are selfish and just want to get theirs and go to sleep. While they fall into a restful slumber, you're tossing and turning looking for batteries as you dig your vibrator from underneath the bed.
Stop that.
According to the article, if you tell your partner what you like, you might get it more and get off.
Guys are visual. If words alone aren’t getting the message across, tap your inner porn star and simply show him what you want.“A lot of men love to watch women masturbate,” Sugg says.
Or take his hand and gently demonstrate how hard or soft you want to be touched.
And men, you can do the same thing to that woman who's bad in bed too. The chick who just lies there, making you feel as if you're making love to a pillow. And speaking of porn stars--did you know there are DVDs for couples?
Check out any adult video store for an array of titles. And for the more literary types, Sari Locker's book, The Complete Idiot's Guide to Amazing Sex is a must have on the nightstand by the bed.
Thursday, December 11, 2008
Pep in your step A liberated couple
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Thu, Dec 11, 2008 at 3:03 PM
Today while shopping at one of my favorite stores on South Boulevard, I saw a couple shopping for dildos. They looked as if they were in their 40s and I have to applaud them for keeping their sex life relevant.
As they looked at the battery operated toys, he asked the helpful clerk just as many questions as she did. He took a blue toy with pearls inside to the register so that the clerk could put batteries inside and demonstrate how it works.
What I wouldn't give to be a fly on their wall to see how they use those toys. I've heard my friends complain about their mate not wanting to experiment with different things in the bedroom. One of my friends said her man thinks that she may get to attached to her vibrator. What he doesn't realize is, he would add the buzzing toy to his bedroom action. Just imagine how she would explode with his tongue in between her legs and the rabbit vibing against her clit.
For a man to help his woman pick out a dildo, that's automatic head for a week. Has to be. He's going to make her come, and she's going to make sure he gets his as well.
So, to all of you men out there, embrace the vibrator and you will get rewarded.
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
Pep in your step Mind your manners in bed
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Wed, Dec 10, 2008 at 10:16 AM
Did you know there are sex rules?
And it's not just putting on a condom and practicing safe sex. There is actual etiquette for having sex --and it isn't just saying please and thank you.
“The most important thing we can do is to be considerate and respectful of our partner,” says Peter Post, a director of the Emily Post Institute and author of Essential Manners For Couples: From Snoring and Sex to Finances and Fighting Fair – What Works, What Doesn’t and Why (Collins).
It is wrong to jump out of bed post sex and run to the bathroom to wash the sticky come off your thighs (or where ever it landed) and that can hurt your partner's feelings, according to the article.
But seriously, it does feel really gross after a few minutes, what's a guy or girl to do?
But if you don’t want to bask in his glory, “you don’t have to lie there and cuddle,” Emma Taylor, one half of the sexpert team Em & Lo, authors of Nerve’s Guide To Sex Etiquette for Ladies and Gentlemen (Hodder & Stoughton Ltd.) says. “Nice guys will grab a towel, run it under the warm tap and wipe you off. That can be a tender, intimate post-sex moment.”
Or you can suggest a post-coital couples shower. Or, have a towel handy so you can both stay in bed.
Does anyone really put these rules into action when they are getting action? Then again, Mom always said you'd get far with good manners. Will you get a multiple orgasm with good manners too?
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