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Tuesday, November 24, 2015

7 things to be thankful for

Posted By on Tue, Nov 24, 2015 at 9:07 AM

Is it just me or has 2015 flown by? This time last year, I was just getting started with Creative Loafing and a new career path. Now, I’m here feeling like a veteran in the game or like Drake, “Started from the bottom now I’m here.”

It’s right around the time for Friendsgiving (Thanksgiving with your friends) celebrations,as well as Friendsgivemas, a term I’m less familiar with. Friendsgivemas fills the gap between Thanksgiving and Christmas when friend-oriented parties occur. Needless to say, this time of year is meant for “the feels” including friends, family and gratitude. Get ready for cultural appropriation, Dirty Santa, eggnog and the dreaded New Year’s resolutions.

Thanksgiving in my household is a three-day event. The night before is spent cooking and taste-testing. The day of is a competition of who can eat the most and how many times. The third day is leftover day, complete with turkey sandwiches. As I prepare for sitting around the dinner table with my family for Thanksgiving, I want to share what I am most thankful for living in the Q.C. *Bow your heads and hold my hand.*

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Tuesday, November 17, 2015

Drunk Gab, part two

Posted By on Tue, Nov 17, 2015 at 1:15 PM

A few months back, I wrote an article on Drunk Gab — things overheard while out and about in the Queen City. Well, I’ve decided a part two was long overdue. This time, I think back to being at the dinner table talking about blood or gore and being told, “That’s not appropriate, Aerin, people are trying to eat.”

While I resented being told I had to be quiet, I now understand the importance of “minding my tongue” at the dinner table, but more importantly, in public spaces. Believe it or not, there are some things that don’t just make for good conversation. No one understands more than I do how difficult it is to be aware of my surroundings or be P.C. (politically correct). Not to mention I’m from the South, so being quiet doesn’t always come naturally — especially after a few drinks.

Last week, I was enjoying a drink with the boyfriend in a dimly lit, intimate setting when out of nowhere I heard someone discussing loudly her choice to take five years of probation over jail time. Granted, she made a smart choice, but I thought to myself, “Well what’d she do in the first place?” I chuckled thinking about the crazy things that have come out of my mouth — things I had purposely said aloud for other people to hear — and what listening ears and wild thoughts probably ran wild in strangers’ ears.

Here are a few topics you may want to leave at home the next you’re headed out for the night. Keep in mind, I’m not judging anyone, I’ve been the prime example of these way too often.


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Tuesday, November 10, 2015

Signs of domestication

Posted By on Tue, Nov 10, 2015 at 1:53 PM

From previous ramblings, you should be able to tell that I’m anything but tame. Recently finding out I was in a relationship has led to some changes in my going-out habits to say the least. (Side note: Yes, I say “found out” because I’ve only been dating this young sir for a couple of months. Having been out of the “dating” game for so long, I didn’t know you could actually be committing to monogamy without checking “yes, no or maybe.”)

My weekends have gone from binge drinking as soon as I get off of work and ending each night at a different co-worker’s house — clarification, these were JUST friends and I was genuinely just passing out — to planning my weekend around the boyfriend’s schedule.

Sign #1 you’re being domesticated? Plans have become a “we” thing instead of a “me” thing. What are “we” doing this weekend? What do you mean I’m not invited? Seriously, what has the world come to? Me, settle down? *Scoffs*
Most of his friends are older and already domesticated, so every weekend I’m usually being berated about what my friends are doing, as if my company isn’t enough. smh.


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Tuesday, November 3, 2015

Right about writing

Posted By on Tue, Nov 3, 2015 at 12:58 PM

What do you wear to a calligraphy class? I had no idea, and since I was running late, per usual, I decided on my Duke sweatshirt and a scarf. I hopped in my car on a rainy Tuesday night and headed to Amélie’s French Bakery & Café in NoDa. For almost two hours prior, the boo thang was complaining since this activity was taking away from “his time.” He asked me, “What’s calligraphy anyways? Is it a type of font?” I’m not going to lie, I was stumped on how to answer. It was almost like explaining to someone how to write in cursive, “Um if you don’t know by now, you just don’t know.”

Let’s rewind. A coworker of mine, Stefanie, is a calligrapher. She and I have bonded over “girlfriend time” while chatting about challenges of the work day and, most importantly, what a pain in the ass significant others can be. She mentioned having a “knack for calligraphy” after attending a class in New York taught by one of her favorite calligraphers. What started out as a hobby for her quickly became a lucrative business that goes by the name of Stroman Studios. It wasn’t long before I was invited to her class, “Cupcakes + Calligraphy.”


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