Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today, Feb. 18, 2010 as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.
Third Thursday at Suite
Table side dances at The Gentleman's Club
A Night In Rio at The Neighborhood Theatre
Champagne Thursday at Club Onyx
Cigar Evening at Sunset Club
TMZ is reporting that the former Mrs. Brad Pitt's new man is creeping around with some pussy, I mean with a Pussycat Doll.
While celebrating Carnival in Rio on Tuesday, Gerard Butler was spotted hanging with Jennifer Aniston Nicole Scherzinger of the Pussycat Dolls.
Once again Jen is the victim of a cheater. How is it that America's Sweetheart keeps getting screwed over? Do some women invite cheating?
Before you pelt me with "it's not her fault," let me tell you yes it is.
Dr. I Major did an interview with Creative Loafing last week and he said it takes two people to be in an unhappy relationship. I'll take it a step further if you keep dating the same kind of man, you're going to end up facing the same bullshit.
Maybe Jen and other women like her should look in the mirror and up their standards.
Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today, Feb. 17, 2010 as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.
Blue Tulip Trio at Diversity Den
Salsa Social at World Dance Center
Ladies Night Line Dancing at Coyote Joe's
Wet Wednesday at Leather and Lace South End
No Cover at Club Onyx (free admission too)
I've yet to wrap my head around the Twilight saga obsession. And after seeing this I don't think I ever will.
Twilight as this one hero, Edward Cullen played by actor Robert Pattinson. The little girls love him but guess what. He's allergic to your puss vagina.
He said it, I didn't.
"I really hate vaginas. I'm allergic to vagina. But I can't say I had no idea, because it was a 12-hour shoot, so you kind of get the picture that these women are going to stay naked after, like, five or six hours. But I wasn't exactly prepared. I had no idea what to say to these girls. Thank God I was hungover."
Pattinson covers the 10th anniversary cover of Details magazine. Click here to take a look.
So, if Pattinson is allergic to pussy, does this mean he has a hard on for Jacob, a.k.a Taylor Lautner.
Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today, Feb. 16, 2010 as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.
$2 Tuesday at Club Onyx
Free beer giveaway at Emerson's of Rock Hill
Open Jam at Smokey Joe's Cafe
Fat Tuesday Bash at Howl at The Moon
Fat Tuesday at Whisky River
Let's say your parents thought you had the perfect mate. The kind of person who always came over bearing gifts or helped out with the yard work but at home, you knew this person was a lying, cheating asshole. Then one day you decided no more. This relationship was over and you were moving on with your life.
Just one problem your family still considers this asswipe a friend.
Even if it is simply on Facebook, family should cut ties with the loser who broke your heart. Seriously.
You don't want to avoid going to see your mother because Mr. (or Ms.) Cheating Ass will be there trimming the shrubs. And you don't want to constantly hear, "I wish you two could work this thing out."
Once you've gotten your family to break up with the ex, don't be a fool and reconnect with your old flame. Because no matter what Ask Men says, you can't and should not be friends with your ex. It's too easy to fall into bed with him or her and then that leads to a whole 'nother set of problems.
Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today, Feb. 15, 2010 as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.
Steak and Shrimp at The Men's Club
Service Industry Night at The Double Door Inn
Half-off wine at Mez
SIN at Club Onyx
Find your muse at The Evening Muse
Dr. I. Major isn't Steve Harvey.
That's why you should listen to him. As a clinical psychologist, Major's information on dating, love and life is a lot more complete than the pop culture books on the shelves these days. Because, you're really going to trust someone named Superhead to give you relationship advice?
Major spoke to Creative Loafing about his book and gave some advice to women who are sick of being lied to and cheated on. Seem fitting that he shared all of this information right before Valentine's Day.
Creative Loafing: Why did you decide to write this book?
Major: A couple of different reasons. The big reason is because as a psychiatrist, I see a lot of patients and most of them are female patients. When they are coming in the most common complaint is depression or they feel like they are at the end of their rope. When you start asking the questions as to what got them to that point, it usually goes back to some form of a failed relationship with a guy. At some point in time, some guy lied to them. That was one of the big reasons I decided to write it.
With your book, you lay out red flags women should look for. How did you come up with them?
A lot of it has come from the patients I have seen in the office and in couples therapy. A lot of it has come from friends and family and a lot of it came from interviews I did in doing the research for the book.
What is the biggest mistake women make after finding out they've been cheated on?
The most common thing is getting mad at the wrong person. They usually get mad at the person the guy was cheating with and they should be focused on, number one the guy himself. And number two they should also be focused on themselves. I tell people all the time that it takes two people to be in an unhappy relationship. People cheat because they aren't happy. If you're the second half of that equation, then you have to turn the microscope on yourself and say what was I missing? What could I have done differently because everyone has to take responsiblity.
But, that's hard to do especially when you want to blame the other person in the relationship.
It is hard, because we don't like to do it. It hurts. It requires a lot of work to fix that type thing. But we're so overwhelmed with life stuff, with bills and work and family. It's hard to take that time and adjust on a very personal level.
What advice to you have to someone trying to heal from cheating?
You have to give yourself time. Take time to really think about the relationship. Go back to the beginning of the relationship, what was it that really attracted you to the guy. What made it so special to be with him and from there, think about what made it get off track. Something went wrong down the road. Something went unsaid and something went undone. There was something he felt was missing and he may or may not have given you a chance to correct it. Then the next decision the woman has to make is where she wants to go with this relationship. Is there something to salvage or is she done and ready to move on?
Want a copy of Little White Whys? Log on to Amazon or Major's website, www.littlewhitewhys.com
Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today, Feb. 12, 2010 as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.
Flavor Factory at Halo
Party until 5 a.m. at Club Onyx
Enso's Valentine's Day Weekend
Five Star Friday at The BLVD
Valentine's Day at The Men's Club
Sunday is Valentines Day and if youve waited until the last minute to plan something for your beloved, you suck.
Lucky for you last minute lovers, Creative Loafing has compiled a list of things to do on this Hallmark day of love that may keep you out of the doghouse and in the bed.
Charlotte Sings Bill Withers at the Evening Muse, Sunday
Finding the marriage you want, Sunday
"That's Amore!" Valentine's Dance, Saturday
Valentines Day Special Wine Tasting Tour, Sunday
Anti-Valentines Day Speed Dating, Friday
Lock and Key Party at Suite, Friday
Happy Valentines Day at Scorpios, Sunday
Valentines Day Affair, 2010, Saturday
The VIP Valentines Day Affair, Saturday
Valentines Day at Holiday Inn Center City, Friday
Hearts and Tarts Ball, Friday
Valentines Day at The Mens Club, Friday and Saturday
I Kissed a girl and I liked it FLO Party, Sunday
Cupid and Canines, Friday
I Do II, Celebration of Love and Life, Saturday
The Hottest Valentines Day Party, Saturday
Heart of Hope Valentines Day Celebration, Saturday
The Sweetheart Package at Chima, Sunday
Second annual Valentines Day Murder Mystery Dinner Party, Saturday
Hearts and Pin Ups, Saturday
Love Hate Party, Saturday
Love Sux Party, Saturday
Sweetheart Tours at Latta Plantation, Saturday and Sunday
Valentines Burning, Saturday
52nd Annual Greater Charlotte Heart Ball, Saturday
PlayDate Valentines Edition, Saturday
Boris Kodjoes second annual Valentines Party, Saturday
Mars Vs. Venus at Club Ice, Saturday
Laugh with Aisha Tyler, Saturday and Sunday
Goodie Mob concert at Amoss SouthEnd, Sunday
Ninth annual Bartenders Ball, Sunday
Lovers and Friends Black and Red Extravaganza, Friday
Celebrate love and the Chinese new year, Sunday
Valentines Special at t1tapas, through Sunday