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Friday, May 15, 2009
Hard News Sex news roundup: Friday
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Fri, May 15, 2009 at 4:20 PM
Here's a look at the headlines floating around the Internet dealing with S-E-X.
Video Sex tip of the week
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Fri, May 15, 2009 at 11:07 AM
The weekend is here, spice up your Friday, Saturday and Sunday with this:
Today’s Top(less) 5 Today's Top(less) 5: Friday
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Fri, May 15, 2009 at 6:30 AM
Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today, May 15, 2009–as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.
•NASCAR promotion at the Men's Club.
•Find sexy lingerie for a weekend in.
•Ladies in Men's Shirts and nothing else at The Estate.
• Ladies' night at BAR Charlotte
• Tommy Bahama party.
Thursday, May 14, 2009
Pep in your step Why you need an orgasm
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Thu, May 14, 2009 at 12:16 PM
Science says an orgasm can take away your pain.
After talking to my friend this morning, I realize that she needs one.
iVillage says:
Because of this secretion, endorphins (hormone-like chemicals that bear a close functional resemblance to morphine) are released. When a person is aroused or excited, oxytocin levels not only begin to increase, they are the reason that orgasms come about. Studies have shown that a rise in oxytocin levels can relieve pain; everything from headaches, cramps and overall body aches can be diminished with a simple roll in the hay.
I've found that after a stressful day, sex with the boy toy or with my favorite sex toy makes all the tension go away.
After talking to my friend and listening to her complain about a nosy coworker, I realized that the problem isn't the co-worker, but her lack of "cumming."
She hasn't had sex in two years and I marvel at that. While she doesn't notice it, everything bothers her. That's because she's backed up.
A recent survey revealed that people who have more sex reported that they felt more at ease, happier and learned how to handle stress better. So perhaps the term "sexual frustration" is not too far from the truth.
So if you're anything like my friend, let me leave you with this last fact about why you need an orgasm:
Although the orgasm is sometimes referred to as the "little death," having at least two orgasms a week can increase your life span.
Lustworthy Taking a look at the sexy side of Carolina for the first time swinger
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Thu, May 14, 2009 at 10:40 AM
When you think about swingers and sex clubs, you think L.A. or New York.
But look in your own back yard if you want to find a sexy experience.
First, check out Adult Carolina. This is your gateway to swingers and clubs around the Carolinas.
If you're looking to get involved in the swingers lifestyle, here are a few things you should know:
An open mind is a must.
Actualswingers.com offers these tips:
- Enter swinging as a couple – in the context of swinging you should enter as a couple. By being couples it does not mean that you need to be married, but should very least have a little history together.
- Be familiar with each others’ emotional needs and wants - this is an extremely important rule when it comes to feeling comfortable about other couples approaching you in a swinger lifestyle.
- Confidence and comfort first – you and your partner must have confidence in each other when being approached by others. If this is not reached, jealousy will occur (see dealing with jealousy). You should be aware of each other comfort when swinging with other couples. If you or your partner is uncomfortable with a situation or activity, it should be ceded immediately.
I've heard that swinging can save marriages that have lost their spark.
Individuals can also explore and learn lots more about their sexual interests. Swinging can enhance a relationship and the commitment involved in the couple’s relationship.
So if you want to try it and see what goes on underneath a banker's boxers, hook up with a one of the many swingers clubs in the area.
Today’s Top(less) 5 Today's Top(less) 5: Thursday
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Thu, May 14, 2009 at 6:30 AM
Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today, May 14, 2009–as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.
• Jam to Jazz at the Double Door Inn.
• Learn to Samba for the Summer.
• $5 Lunch time penthouse dances.
• Latin night at Cosmo's.
• Fly in the Skyy Blue party.
Wednesday, May 13, 2009
He said/She said Does getting married mean giving up single friends?
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Wed, May 13, 2009 at 11:39 AM
Remember when you and your friends would stay out all night, drinking, talking shit and flirting with everything that had a pulse?
Or remember when you and your friends gathered around the movie screen to watch a chick flick, eat popcorn and cry because men are such dogs?
Well, according to the Frisky, if you're getting married, those days are over.
And this is the biggest load of crap I've ever heard.
Yes, the all night parties are over when you say 'I do.' But not your friendships. Everyone isn't going to get married at the same time, so guess what, you're going to have single friends.
Here's what I've learned from some happily married people, you can't live in a vacuum. The world is not just you and your spouse. The hubby should still have a guy's night and the wife should still have a girl's night.
Time apart makes the time together even better.
This right here, is just ridiculous:
Life was filled with wine-drenched, late-night talks, long bike rides along the lake, picnics in the park, afternoon shopping frenzies, potlucks, brunches, and impromptu sleep-overs — all with my single friends. Now that I’m fully immersed in “coupled life,” I realize I’ll probably never have friendships like those again.
If you're never going to have friendships like that again, then you probably weren't a good friend to begin with. More than likely, you did all the bitching and complaining and your friends had to listen to that bullshit.
One reader of the blog said it best:
As [a] single girl this all sounds so self-absorbed. “When you’re married you’ll find out who will take a red-eye to be with you in a crisis”???? It’s like high school all over again. You find the husband, dump your girlfriends when marriage is fun then complain that we aren’t there for you when marriage becomes real because you ignored us.We singles aren’t morons. We realize that your marriage will always come first, but throw us a bone and don’t treat us like an employee you call only when there’s a crisis to tend to. We truly are happy for our married friends, as like as they’re not married to jerks).
That's right!
Today’s Top(less) 5 Today's Top(less) 5: Wednesday
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Wed, May 13, 2009 at 6:30 AM
Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today, May 13, 2009–as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.
• Ladies's night line dancing.
• Sing for cash at The Crazy Horse Showclub.
• Flirt at the Forum.
• The Band of Oz at The Piedmont Town Center.
• Speed dating Wednesdays.
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
Lustworthy Need some extra cash? Just shake your ass
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Tue, May 12, 2009 at 11:18 AM
If you can shake it fast, on May 21st you could win $1,000.
Club Onyx is hosting "The Official Booty Shaking Contest." I wonder what the unofficial booty shaking contest would look like, but I digress.
Strip clubs across our area are hosting a lot of contests to stimulate (the economy) and titillate (the
customer).
Crazy Horse in Hickory hosts a winner take all Topless Pool tournament on Saturdays.
The Crazy Horse on Independence hosts a Karaoke contest with a cash prize on Wednesdays.
On Sunday night, Uptown Cabaret hosts a bikini contest with a cash prize of $500.
So, if you're low on cash and don't mind taking it off, head to one of the local gentleman's clubs and enter a contest. You may win or get offered a job.
Today’s Top(less) 5 Today's Top(less) 5: Tuesday
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Tue, May 12, 2009 at 6:30 AM
Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today, May 12, 2009–as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.
• Flyleaf with Family at Amos's.
• Get down Brown Tuesday.
• Sangria night at Mez.
• Ladies Night at Caveman's.
• Two for Tuesday at The Crazy Horse.
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