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Friday, December 11, 2009
Interviews Sex Q&A: Rodrigo A. Jimenez, owner Charlotte Salsa
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Fri, Dec 11, 2009 at 4:29 PM
You've seen Dancing with The Stars and how good people look doing those sexy shimmies. And you've wanted to know: Where can I go in Charlotte to learn how to do that?
Rodrigo Jimenez, owner of Charlotte Salsa — a local dance studio that teaches Latin-inspired dances, among other disciplines — recently talked to Creative Loafing about the sex appeal and the benefits of learning to shake your tail feather.
Creative Loafing: What makes salsa so sexy?
Rodrigo Jimenez: I would say, pretty much the music itself. It's very hyper, and it's music that has a lot of feeling. And when people listen to it, it's like they get into a trance. But it's a good trance. It's something that frees yourself, and your body becomes the way of expressing these feelings. Since it's a partner dance, when you dance with your partner, you always try to become one and communicate with your partner. The main point of that conversation makes the dance so unique. And if your partner is your significant other or you care about that person, it makes it a lot ... stronger and that makes the dance [sexier] and passionate.
Are your Wednesday Salsa Socials a good place to meet new people?
This is the perfect place to come in. It is a free event that we do for the community. It's a really good way to be introduced into salsa because at 8:30 [p.m.], we start with a free lesson. We teach the basics, then from 9 p.m. to 11:30 p.m., it's just dancing. And most of the people that go there are students of ours, and they bring their friends. We create an environment where people don't feel uncomfortable, it's very welcoming and very friendly. A lot of times, people don't want to go to the club because when they come to the studio, it is a more friendly environment.
Do you have to have a partner to attend?
No, you don't have to have a partner, and that's pretty much the point of having the socials. So people can come in and they meet. A lot of people that are students, they come in and meet each other and practice together. But we all dance with each other. A lot of people ask that when they call us. The point is to go out and socialize and meet people.
Why do you think more people are getting into dance?
Dancing has a lot of good effects on people. It's very strong if people want to release stress. It is something that can fill them up. A lot of the people that take classes, they need something . They need their friends; they need to interact with people. They need to feel better about themselves. Dancing can be therapeutic. A lot of the people who take private lessons are going through a divorce, so when we meet privately, it's a lot of talking and not just dance. Sometimes when couples take private lessons together, it makes them stronger. And because of these times and there is a lot more stress, we have more people come in. The people come in, they dance and they relax and they forget about all the problems and they just have a good time.
So, do you want to join in and have a good time dancing or meet some new people like to salsa? Log on to Charlotte Salsa and check out the classes and the Wednesday Night Social.
Today’s Top(less) 5 Today's Top(less) 5: Friday
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Fri, Dec 11, 2009 at 6:25 AM
Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today, December 11, 2009 — as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.
• Burlesque at Halo
• Rock the Recession at Whisky River
• A Not So Silent Night at Damnit Janet
• Naughty Santa Weekend at The Estate
• Club Insomnia at The Gold Club
Thursday, December 10, 2009
He said/She said Having an affair, stay off Facebook
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Thu, Dec 10, 2009 at 1:56 PM
Cheating is a hot issues these days and we all know why.
But this isn't a blog about Tiger Woods. It's about a stupid man from right here in Charlotte. The names have been changed to protect the not so innocent.
Clark is married but dates as if he's a single man. The sad thing is that so many single women actually get involved with this guy, knowing that he's married.
In case you're wondering how I know this guy, we're family--and I am not the wife or I'd be writing this from jail.
Anyway, Clark met a girl who loves to snap pictures and on their last encounter she took some compromising pictures of the two of them. He asked her not to post them online. Then he stood her up a couple of weeks later. So, guess what she did.
You got it--put it on Facebook.
As it turned out, one of the woman's friends on Facebook knew his wife and forwarded her the pictures.
Busted.
Clark tried to explain his way out of it and even played it off as joke. Then his wife went all Elin Woods on him and went through his phone while he was sleeping. I will give Clark credit for trying, his phone book only listed the person's initials. But his wife is not a fool. She called the numbers that matched text messages and she found the woman in the pictures.
Now, Clark is sleeping at friends houses and begging me to talk to his wife.
But I have a message for him. Stop being stupid and sleeping around with chicks who can't keep their mouths closed or pictures off Facebook.
Why did you get married when you wanted to be single?
And to the women out there who don't respect the wedding band, not all wives are as reserved as Clark's.
Today’s Top(less) 5 Today's Top(less) 5: Thursday
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Thu, Dec 10, 2009 at 6:30 AM
Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today, December 10, 2009 — as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.
• Pop champagne at Club Onyx
• Party Rock with LMFAO at The Fillmore
• Cigars and $10 table dances at The Gentlemen's Club
• Casa Latino at Cosmos
• Cocktails for a Cause
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
Hard News Power, pu$$y and green balloons
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Wed, Dec 9, 2009 at 1:55 PM
And while everyone was focused on Tiger Woods having sex with a bunch of cocktail waitresses, yet another politician has gotten caught up in a sex scandal.
Rod Jetton, a Republican from Missouri, is taking a step back from politics to deal with an assault charge involving a woman who is not his wife.
Former House Speaker Rod Jetton sent an aftershock through Missouri’s political terrain Tuesday, saying he will close his political consulting firm to fight a felony charge that he assaulted a Sikeston woman.Jetton “will be leaving politics to deal with false allegations and spend time with his family,” said his attorney, Stephen Wilson, in a written statement. “He is confident that when the facts of this case are heard, he will be found innocent.”
Formed in 2004, the same year Jetton was elected speaker, Jetton and Associates eventually became one of the go-to GOP political shops in the state because of his connections in the General Assembly.
“He had a meteoric rise,” Missouri State University political scientist George Connor said Tuesday. “Should these allegations prove to be true, then he’ll have an equally meteoric fall.”
The Frisky gives this account of what happened:
A woman is claiming that he drugged her and then beat her up during sex, and he has been charged with a felony. Here’s the gist of what the woman claims happened: Jetton came over to her place on Nov. 15 with two bottles of wine in hand for a night of wild sex—they’d agreed beforehand to use the safe word “green balloons” if either of them was feeling uncomfortable. Things started out tame. He poured her a glass in the kitchen and then sat down with her to watch a football game. She noticed herself feeling hazy and felt like she was nodding off. Next thing she knew, she was on the floor and Jetton was allegedly choking her. She says he then hit her so hard she lost consciousness. He apparently stayed over and was all tender to her in the morning. “You should have said green balloons,” she quotes him as saying.
Why do women give up the pussy to married men in positions of power and expect that nothing bad will happen? Power is intoxicating and a huge turn on — but ladies, have some self-respect. From John Edwards, to Eliot Spitzer and Mark Sanford, women have gotten it on with them and outside of Spitzer — who at least had the good sense to pay for sex — these women got involved with married men and for what?
Did Maria in South America think S.C. governor Sanford was really going to leave his rich wife and live with her? Just because his e-mails sounded like a love-struck hippy, Sanford knew he wasn't going anywhere.
Did Rielle Hunter think Edwards was going to leave wife, who is battling cancer, so that they could go get $400 haircuts together? Seriously, as stupid as these men are, the women aren't much smarter.
The real power isn't in the politician, but in that woman's panties. He'll do anything to get your pussy — but there is no law saying you have to give it to him.
And please, if you're into S&M, make your safe word better than "green balloons."
Today’s Top(less) 5 Today's Top(less) 5: Wednesday
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Wed, Dec 9, 2009 at 6:30 AM
Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today, December 9, 2009 — as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.
• Wicked and Wild Diva's at Scorpio's
• Guy's Night Out at Uptown Cabaret
• Wet Wednesday at Leather and Lace SouthEnd
• Every F*cking Wednesday at Dharma Lounge
• Twinkle, Twinkle Fashion Show
Tuesday, December 8, 2009
Hard News / He said/She said Abortion, health care debate and why white men are making this decision
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Tue, Dec 8, 2009 at 1:41 PM
When I follow real news, I realize why women in this country have it pretty bad when it comes to our bodies.
Old white men.
This isn't a racist rant, so if you comment, leave that out. But look at congress and tell me who's making all the noise about abortion in the health care debate.
Old white men.
These men, who get their Viagra covered by insurance, don't think a woman's right to choose should be covered under a public health plan.
The abortion debate actually began on the Senate floor on Monday. A vote is possible late Tuesday, Senate leaders said. The fight is over an amendment, put forward by Senator Ben Nelson, Democrat of Nebraska, that would impose tight restrictions on coverage of abortions by any health plan purchased even partly with new federal subsidies intended to help the uninsured afford insurance.
When people who are against abortion decide to adopt these babies, I'll be happy, but that's not going to happen.
Is abortion a sin? Can you--prolifer--condemn someone to hell for having an abortion?
Should abortion be used for birth control? No.
But since most sex ed taught in public schools focuses on abstinence only, we're raising a generation of kids who will think if they pray about it, they won't get pregnant, despite the fact that they aren't using birth control.
I'm beginning to think that congress (and it's lowercase because I don't respect them) wants to push women back into dirty rooms with wire hangers.
If insurance companies didn't keep old men's dicks working into their senior years, then there wouldn't be so many people needing to have an abortion. (An old nut baby= being raised by a single mother.)
And let's be real here. If the daughter of one of these old white men got pregnant by Snake Dunlap--you know, the tattooed cliche from the wrong side of the tracks (or Levi Johnston) - she'd be in a Planned Parenthood Clinic before you can say hypocrisy.
But the debate goes on.
Still, the abortion issue threatens to cost Democrats the support of Mr. Nelson for the larger health care bill. And because the majority leader, Harry Reid of Nevada, will eventually need 60 votes to wrap up debate and move to a final vote, further compromise on the issue could be needed. Or Mr. Reid will have to win over one or both of the Maine Republicans to approve the bill. And that could entail tough negotiations over many other provisions.Both sides in the abortion fight say they are trying to maintain existing federal law, which bars the use of federal dollars for insurance coverage of abortions with rare exceptions for rape, incest and the health of the mother.
Sally says both sides are full of shit.
Today’s Top(less) 5 Today's Top(less) 5: Tuesday
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Tue, Dec 8, 2009 at 6:03 AM
Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today, December 8, 2009 — as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.
• $2 Tuesday at Club Onyx
• Tune Up Tuesday at Whisky River
• Trivia Tuesday at Town Tavern
• YAM Holiday Party at South Park
• Educated speed dating at Crave
Monday, December 7, 2009
Misc. Shooting porn to pay for the wedding
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Mon, Dec 7, 2009 at 12:17 PM
So, you want to get married but you're broke as a joke.
How are you going to have that special wedding that you've dreamed of since birth?
Well, you could make a porno.
That's what a couple who wants to get married in Cancun is doing and so far, they've made $2,000.
The pair, who have four children, have played a photographer and lingerie model who strip for a romp, and also appeared in a threesome.
Lisa, 34, even dripped hot wax on Tommy's chest at a motorway service station hotel to recreate a scene from Madonna's 1993 movie Body of Evidence.
She also spanked him with a paddle. She said: "I was laughing my head off.
"I have told my mum and most of my friends. They understand. It's always been our dream to have a fairytale wedding."
So, you want to make money to have that Disney wedding that you've always wanted. Pull out the video camera and start filming your porno. If you're in Charlotte, there are plenty of prime locations for you to use for sex acts.
And the above couple is proof that no one looks at faces in porn.
Today’s Top(less) 5 Today's Top(less) 5: Monday
Posted By Mustang Sally, Mayor of Bang Town on Mon, Dec 7, 2009 at 6:29 AM
Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today, December 7, 2009 — as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.
• Find your Muse at The Evening Muse
• Are you ready for some football and a lapdance?
• Half off wine at Mez
• Couples welcomed at The Gold Club
• Champagne dinner at The Fig Tree
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