Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today, February 18, 2011 as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.
70s Party at The Estate
After Hours Buffet at The Men's Club
Couples Welcomed at The Crazy Horse Showclub
Whisky River Friday Night
The BlackOut at Upscale Lounge
Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today, February 17, 2011 as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.
Champagne Thursday at Club Onyx
Kick Ass Filet at The Men's Club
Uptown Thursday night at Bar Charlotte
Pisces at Six
VIP Dances at The Gentlemen's Club
Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today, February 16, 2011 as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.
Guy's Night Out at The Sunset Club
Let The Children Techno at Butter
Wet Pussy (drink of the month) at Leather and Lace University
Oil Painting in Pineville
No Cover Wednesday at Club Onyx
Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today, February 15, 2011 as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.
$5 Cover at Baby Dolls
SIN Night at Whisky River
$2 Tuesday at Club Onyx
Karaoke Tuesday at Dilworth Neighborhood Grille
$2 Tacos at The Men's Club
How is it that we keep hearing about the alleged John Edwards sex tape, but there hasn't been a leak of it at all?
The former presidential hopeful has been deposed about the tape he supposedly made with Rielle Hunter, the mother of his youngest child.
Robert Elliot said Edwards was deposed last week as part of a dispute between former Edwards aide Andrew Young and Edwards mistress Rielle Hunter. Elliot declined to discuss the content of the testimony. A judge said last year he didn't want the details discussed publicly and warned both sides that he could hold people in contempt if the deposition material is talked about outside of the case.Hunter has sued Young to reclaim materials, including a video that Young has said depicts a sexual encounter involving Edwards and a woman he assumes to be Hunter. Young has said he helped cover up the affair and contends the tape was found amid trash Hunter left behind in a home he was renting.
Meanwhile, a separate federal criminal investigation in Raleigh has drawn several people in recent months to testify before a grand jury. People familiar with the case have said investigators are examining how much Edwards knew about money used to cover up his affair and whether he violated campaign finance laws. The investigation is particularly focused on whether money given to Hunter and Young should have been considered campaign donations.
Hunter worked in 2006 as a videographer for Edwards' political action committee, shooting behind-the-scenes footage as the Democrat prepared to launch his second White House campaign. Edwards acknowledged a year ago that he fathered a child with Hunter, though Young had initially claimed paternity so Edwards could continue his campaign.
Can we get a screen shot, a 30-second clip or something? Otherwise, we are so over hearing about this without seeing if it really exists. I'm beginning to thing that this video like N.C.'s Bigfoot we keep looking for it, but never, ever see it.
Thursday, Charlotte Mecklenburg Police took a U.S. Army sergeant Charlie Landrum Ingram, 45, into custody on charges that he allegedly assaulted a woman who was signing up for the army. The alleged incident happened last Thursday, Feb. 3, at the Army recruiting office located at 440 McCullough Drive.
Ingram allegedly made inappropriate sexual comments toward her. Then, he reportedly took her into a supply room where he sexually assaulted her. The victim told police that she attempted to leave the room, but Ingram pushed her into the corner of the room and continued to fondle her. The victim was finally able to escape the assault when someone came into the building, startling the suspect.
He was taken to the Mecklenburg County Sheriffs Office and given a bail amount of $5,000, for the four misdemeanor charges.
Anyone with information regarding this case or any other incidents involving Ingram is asked to contact Detective Banner with the Sexual Assault Unit, at abanner@cmpd.org or 704-336-8279.
Ingram's case highlights an issue the Army has been dealing with since 2005, recruiters facing sex charges. According to The Army Times, there have been case across the country dealing with this issue including the dismissal of 15 recruiters in Indiana in 2009.
The former recruiter, Sgt. Eric P. Vetesy, 39, is expected to plead guilty Friday in the Hamilton County case. He faces 39 charges relating to sexual misconduct with females he recruited mostly high school teenagers when he appears in court in Noblesville.The states top Guard recruiting official said the dismissals since Vetesys arrest, though troublesome, show that new rules and procedures implemented to prevent and expose sex-related wrongdoing in Guard recruiting are working.
In other words, violations stopped being swept under the rug, Lt. Col. Ivan E. Denton noted in an update to the National Guard Bureau in Washington earlier this year.
Denton, who oversees nearly 200 Guard recruiters statewide, has logged and investigated 36 sex-related complaints since the February 2005 indictment of Vetesy.
Last year in California, an Army recruiter was arrested after a mall security guard saw him having sex with a 17-year-old girl, who police said was a potential army recruit, in the parking lot of a mall.
Christian Rigal Mercado, 25, who worked as a recruiter at the Army's office on Mount Vernon Avenue in San Bernardino, was suspended from his recruiting duties while the incident was investigated, the newspaper reported.
A 2006 Associated Press report uncovered these facts about sex abuse in the military:
The Army, which accounts for almost half of the military, has had 722 recruiters accused of rape and sexual misconduct since 1996.Across all services, one out of 200 frontline recruiters the ones who deal directly with young people was disciplined for sexual misconduct last year.Some cases of improper behavior involved romantic relationships, and sometimes those relationships were initiated by the women.
Most recruiters found guilty of sexual misconduct are disciplined administratively, facing a reduction in rank or forfeiture of pay; military and civilian prosecutions are rare.
The increase in sexual misconduct incidents is consistent with overall recruiter wrongdoing, which has increased from just over 400 cases in 2004 to 630 cases in 2005, according to a General Accounting Office report.
Normally I would complain about having to spend Valentines Day in Austin, Texas, with the likes of Tucker Max. But considering he's helping me prepare my book for publishing, it's the best Valentine's ever.
Well, kinda ...
Friday night I was sitting alone at a coffee shop/bar in downtown Austin, drinking a spiked coffee while entrenched in the edits Tucker assigned me, when a guy plopped down in the extra chair at my table. In a deep English accent he introduced himself, I'm Eddie, whats your name?
I peered over my computer screen, Ummmm Brittney.
"What are you working on?" he asked.
My train of thought was completely ruined, and I was irritated that he'd so boldly interrupted me. What do you want, dude? I'm just working on the biggest project of my life and have five minutes to finish it. I'm not busy or anything.
But I tried to be friendly and threw some closed-ended answers at him: Some writings.
"Oh really ... what are you writing?"
"A book."
He sat there for five minutes asking random questions that I responded to with one-word answers. Soon, a buzzer goes off I assumed it was coming from the noisy downtown streets beyond the open doors 10 feet from me.
OK, nice to meet you, he said, getting up from the chair he invited himself to sit down in.
Oooo K then, you too, I responded, rolling my eyes at him as he turns around to sit at another table where another girl sat alone. Maybe she'll want to talk to you weirdo.
The chair still warm from Eddie's ass, another guy moseyed on up and copped a squat. What is up with the guys in Austin? Is this standard procedure down here? The place is packed so maybe he just needs a seat. But he didn't even have ask. Chivalry is an endangered species, I swear.
Hey, Im Jim.
Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today, February 14, 2011 as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.
Uptown's Monday Funday at Dixie's Tavern
SIN Monday at Club Onyx
$20 Package deal at Leather and Lace SouthEnd
Wok Bar Sweetheart's Dinner and No Love Lost Party
Anti Valentine's Day at The Men's Club
Apparently writing this blog makes me some sort of relationship expert, because it inspired an invitation from ESPNU to host a a Valentine's Day segment to school boys in how to survive Valentine's Day.
You can watch the segment here, but in synopsis, here are some words of wisdom to get gentlemen through D-Day. I mean, V-day ...
1. Well for starters, don't forget! Though, jewelry commercials certainly make it hard to forget about Valentine's Day. But help the economy (and yourself by making your woman happy) and partake in the Hallmark holiday.
2. Don't get a gift from a drug store or a gas station. Make us feel classy and get our box of chocolates from the grocery store at least.
3. No stuffed animals! ... unless you're shopping for a 10-year-old girl, which in that case would make you gross. Women make their beds with throw pillows as adults, not teddy bears.
4. Be creative when setting up the date. Besides, the more creative you get the cheaper the date gets. And be tactful don't take her to an expensive steak house if she doesn't eat meat.
Valentine's is typically a holiday geared toward couples and florists, but in all honestly, single men seem to actually reap most of the benefits from it. They can go out on Valentine's Day with the unavailable women already weeded out for them, leaving an assortment of single women looking for a little love, or loving whatever. And they don't even have to buy a present.Thus the single guys seem to be the ones who score the most on Valentine's Day. Pun intended.
Here are the five best events to get you hot and bothered with or without a date going down in Charlotte and the surrounding area today, February 11, 2011 as selected by the folks at Creative Loafing.
The Hearts and Tarts ball at The Estate
Ace and TJ's Auction of Love at Whisky River
Couples welcome at The Gold Club
World's Longest Happy Hour at Howl at The Moon
Free Ribeye Friday at The Men's Club